my friend and her cousin r at a dance and the cousin's BFF was there and ditched the cousin. my friend IM'd me and asked 4 sum ways to get bak at her. the only thinh they thought of was a rumor tht she danced weird.
HELP!!
2007-03-16 13:39:30 · 18 answers · asked by OSUbuckeye3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to rise above what she has done and ignore her.It makes you a better person.
2007-03-16 19:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same problem...i have a group of 5 friends and it seems like 3 of my friends keep ditching my and my other friend! so far i've tolerated it, but i've been meaning to get back at them...
i suggest that you don't do anything quite yet. maybe it's best if you wait and see if she does it again. if she does, maybe she's not the best friend you thought she was. if she doesn't, maybe it's all just a huge misunderstanding.
i wish you good luck, and i hope you enjoy yourself when you eventually seek revenge!
2007-03-19 14:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by SARB3AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be the better person, don't do anything. It will just make you look like a jerk. Living well is the best revenge. We are here to be the best we can be and getting back at someone is not the best you can do, plus you are more mature then thay childish behavior.
2007-03-16 14:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by azgrmadonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a matter of getting back at her. that only further injures the relationship. you either reconcile or you dont. you forgive and forget or you dont at all.
the best way to get back at someone is treating them the way you would want to be treated. i know it sounds dumb, but it actually works. if you hurt someones feelings and felt bad about it and the preson was just as nice to you as before, your not only less likeyl to do it again but you are also probably feeling pretty crappy about what you did
revenge may seem sweet, but in doing so you are only stooping to their level
oh gosh i soudn like my mom,but it acutally is true
2007-03-16 13:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... this is incredibly immature. Her cousin shouldn't look for ways to get back at her friend. She should talk to her friend and let her know that ditching her was not cool.
2007-03-16 13:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by littlearthquake3355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm attempt and forget approximately approximately it in case you won't have the ability to then attempt and refer to her and your boyfriend. attempt and get an extensive team of acquaintances which will with any luck stand with you... if all else fails and the only answer to make it end is get lower back at her (which isn't the suited of techniques) be ingenious i'm particular you will arise with some thing yet getting people lower back is somewhat infantile and tbh it rather is rather no longer nicely worth it. stable success xxx
2016-10-18 21:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to assume your in what the 5th grade?
dont try to get back at her- that is just low on your part. if she was your true best friend then she would not of done that. just forget about it- dont start drama, its pointless and will just make you look desperate for attention and lame.
2007-03-16 13:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy if she was a true friend then she wouldn't have ditched, so all i have to say is don't get revenge just tell the person that your not her friend anymore. anyway she isn't a true friend if she gets mad about it and ditches.
2007-03-16 13:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by devillilcute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't. two wrongs do not make a right. the best way to get back at someone is to show them that what they did to you did not bother you. getting back at them makes you seem childish and immature. if you show them that what they did, did not bother you, you seem more mature, and they feel silly that they did such a childish thing.
2007-03-16 13:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dances weird? you need something more evil!
EXAMPLE: spread a rumor that she's havin a secret affair with a man she met over the internet
hope this helps [=
2007-03-16 13:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by 11:11 pm<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋