bully problem?

Question

see theres this girl in my classes, and she thinks shes all that, she always makes bitc,hy remarks to me and says im ugly and stuff and the whole class can see espesially they guy i like and its soooooooo embarsing, anyway i can't do anything about it becouse ill be out numbered becouse theres more people on her side, and i won't no what to say and if she says something bad about me in front of the guy that i like ill be soo embarssed, so basically theres no way out of this what can i do?

Answer 1

Soon as she has a pimple make fun of it in front of the whole class.....shell never say another word to you.

Answer 2

Yes there is a way out of this. First of all I can tell that you are very young, perhaps in Middle School or High School. The reason why I mentioned the Schools is because I through the same sorts of things when I was much younger. Things are a little different today. For starters talk to your parents so that they may get ahold of this girls parents to have a sit down discussion to get this situation to stop being a problem. A person may dislike another person for whatever the reason, but they have no right in going around harrasing you in front of others.If it does not work with the parents, then it may need to be taken to an authority figure at School such as Counselor, Teacher or Principal, depending upon how your School's assistance programs are. I know that it is hard, but try not to worry too much about being outnumbered because as you get a little older, you will find that the people who will really count in your life will be there for you no matter what. Just to show you how strange life is, when I was being picked on when I was young, I used to pretend that it did not bother me. I had very full lips and this one boy used to call me blubber lips. For years because of that memory I did not wear lipstick for he had planted a picture in my mind. Guess what every one is doing today, anything and everthing to get full lips. I hope that you get my point . Hold your head up high and do not let anyone affect how you feel about yourself. You are just as good if not better and there is no reason for you to ever think differently, I do not care what anyone says. I which someone had told me that after the lip calling incident, I would not have wasted my time trying to not draw attention to my mouth. There will always be bullies in life and you just need to try to remember that they cannot hurt you unless they put their hands on you. Walk tall, hold your head up and don't let your enemies see you sweat. After awhile, they will see that you do not care and find somone else to harass.

Answer 3

What a terrible thing. People can be so cruel. She is jealous of you for some reason and wants to put you down to make herself look better. Try to avoid her and ignore her. You probably can't change her, she will always be like that. Just try to stay out of her territory and go on being the nice person you are. Concentrate on your school work (especially your spelling and grammer, which is important in any career) and when she finds out you are oblivious to her, she may turn to annoying someone else. Work hard on your school work, that is a priority in your life at this time, socializing can come later after you have created an education and good choice of careers in your life and have become a whiz (?) probably not the word I want). You always have a lot of crushes in school and you probably can't get him anyway because he is interested in sports and works after school or there is a cute chick in another class he digs. Good luck. You will always have a chance at that guy later on, he will eventually come knocking at your door, I promise.

Answer 4

This is probably the worst advice I have ever given, but next time she says something b*tchy to you, punch her in the face. You will probably get into a lot of trouble for physically harming her, but what she is doing is mentally abusing harming you. And girls can usually take that type of abuse too far. By hitting her in the face, you will put an end to her mean comments and win some respect within the class.

That's how most guys your age will solve thier problems. And it's fairly acceptable among them.

Answer 5

oh boy, that kind of harrassment is hard to ignore, but if you can just walk away from it and show your emotions only when you get to a private place, it will be better for you. This b*tch is just trying to get a reaction and found you to be an easy target. She has issues and most people can see that. Usually when someone targets another person to cut down, there is something that other person sees in you that they are jealous of. If it keeps up I would suggest talking to one of your teachers or the counsler and see what can be done about this other girl.

Answer 6

I am sooooo sick of girls who think they are so much better than everyone else. Leave an anonymous letter on a guys locker from her and make it really bad and put a photo of her on it so they know what she looks like and then the sh*t will start on her.

Answer 7

Don't bully her back it's rude, but if you don't let it bother you she'll stop. I know you might here this alot and it's not working, bully her will not solve anything. If you be yourself kids will like you for who you are. You do not have to change for the world. Besides if you make a comment like "Are you trying to make me look bad because your jealous of me?" she might stop.

Answer 8

You need to stand upo for your self. Don't let her put you down for her enjoyment. It's not right that you have to get bullied by an idiot.

I hope this helps.

Answer 9

Ignore her, she's just really jealous because you probably have something that she would never even dream of having.

Answer 10

take the high road and ignore her. maybe she is not happy and likes to pick on other people.