2007-03-16 13:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by TLO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go up to a gurl you like and start to talk to her thats wut i did to a guy in my gym so cute he is shy but cute i havent told him i liked him but i started to talk to him so you should try its ok to talk to ppl they arnt going to hurt you ive started up a relation ship with shy guys and they are like out there know so just try its not going to hurt.....
2007-03-16 13:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible to get into a relationship if you are quiet and shy but much more difficult. you can try to get your friends to set you up with someone but its unlikely that the relationship will grow if you dont come out of your shell at least a little bit. on that first date you have to convince the other person that you are someone fun to be around and someone they can mesh with whatever your interests may be. i would suggest working on being less shy little by little. it may take some time but if you keep trying to go a little bit outside your comfort zone you'll find that its not so bad or difficult to be slightly more outgoing and social.
2007-03-16 20:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your hobbies? Do you like to read? Hang out at the bookstore during your spare time and see if you can find someone who shares your interests. All it really takes is time. Be patient. A good relationship isn't going to just show up on your doorstep - unless you're into the UPS delivery person. Take some time to figure out what it is you want in a mate - and out of life. Sometimes you have to know yourself before you feel ready to share with another. Good luck!
2007-03-16 20:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like you but that was when i was 13yr. Check this out put into your mind as if you would of been a hot shot for a girl ask theme question its OK if you stutter some girls think that's sweet because your nervous but if you see that the girl is not really interesting at your conversation move on without getting but-hurt just act cool but never think you cant start a conversation with a girl theirs plenty of girls with different tastes good luck.
2007-03-16 20:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by francisco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is not really because you're shy, but i think you're also scared in a sense.try summone some courage to open up to someone you think is worth being your boyfriend, also show some trust and let him see it . i think that'll make a good start
2007-03-16 20:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Elfindo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's just better to wait and let someone find you. you don't want to act like something you're not. just be who you are, shy and quiet and someone will love you for it.
2007-03-16 20:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conquer your shyness first, I used to be shy but then I got involved with our community theater, that's actually where I met my boyfriend.
2007-03-16 20:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out and talk more to people and once you get use to that then you can get into relationship easly i know how you feel because i been there
2007-03-16 20:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋