I really like my bf but he never talks to me & i never talk to him & when i try to his bestfriend is always there talking to him and even if he's not its still MAD akward, what should i do?
2007-03-16 13:34:32 · 8 answers · asked by twirlgirl17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of the relationship. Obviously you two don't share enough interests to carry on a conversation. I have been married to my husband for three years and communication is what makes our relationship strong. There is a difference in comfortable silence and not having anything in common. There are millions of people out there you'll find the one to talk your ear off it just takes patience.
2007-03-16 13:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by erin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let me tell you something ... MOVE ON. Girl, you have more going for you than staying with someone that doesn't appreciate you enough to even talk to you. If you want him to appreciate you more, break up with him. I know it sounds crazy but I'm 32 and have been there, done that. He may not know it yet, but you will be liked more showing that you have confidence and can be on your own (even if you feel you can't, ACT like it and then you will).
Be confident and don't waste your time with someone that you aren't fully enjoying. Good luck
2007-03-16 20:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by J girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You never talk to Him then is not You boy friend, What You should do? get some self confidence books and start reading, that might help You to understand Yourself and what's around You.
2007-03-16 20:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on before its too late, you could end up married to him for 16 years and he still doesn't talk and you will be extremely miserable,trust me!!!
2007-03-16 20:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Krista H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation once, he dumped me and said he wanted to "be closer to God".
2007-03-16 20:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you just have a crush, not a boyfriend. you call him your boyfriend, but it doesn't sound like he is acting like your boyfriend. and why would you want to be with someone who isn't giving you his best?
Lose him.
2007-03-16 20:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've been going out for over 3 months----DUMP HIM!!
you can find someone better, and who is more loyal to you.
2007-03-16 20:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to go out to eat. when you are alone tell him how you feel.
2007-03-16 20:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by finkksta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋