I'm nineteen, a college student, and a virgin...am I too young for adult relations? I'm very muture for my age... I know that I am legally eligible...but do you think that most nineteen year old females are mentally ready for the next step?
I'm not waiting until I'm married or anything... and I get MORE then enough offers!!!
Really I don't know why I haven't done the deed yet!
2007-03-16 13:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it because you feel like you should. Do it because it feels right.
I lost my virginity at 19, but most of my friends were younger when they lost it, actually.
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Have sex because you want to and feel you are ready for it and that it's the right time.
Most of all--don't stress out about it. It will happen when the time is right.
2007-03-16 13:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i lost mine when i was 14 years old and still regret it to this day and it was 5 years ago.but when you do decide to take that step make sure it is with the RIGHT person.because if you dont you will still be thinking about it and wishing you could change it years down the road like i do .Also men dont realize how important it is to a woman nor usually do they care and neighter does the woman till after it happens.Just take your time your in school finish school sex should be the least of your worries now.but when the time is right baby you will know it .
2007-03-16 14:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by brittinye007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not too young. but the question is are you in a committed relationship? personally i feel that sex outside of a relationship is trashy for both male and female. i was 19 when i lost my virginity. i was in a relationship and im actually still with the person. i love him so much. but anyways. if you are in a serious relationship, talk with your partner and go ahead and do it as long as your using protection ofcourse. you dont want to regret anything in the future so make sure its with someone you love for your first time.
2007-03-16 14:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ xtina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need anyone else's approval if you have your own. Just don't throw yourself into it because you feel like you have to. Do it because you want to and someone else wants to, and the time is right and you've got everything taken care of.
I'm sure you'll get 50000 answers saying that sex before marriage is a sin. That's bull...if you think you can handle it, you'll do just as well at this age as at any other age.
2007-03-16 14:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by life on stage 89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know what you are doing, and if you have a clear head, go ahead if you want to. Just don't take crap from anyone you have relations with. Keep your head straight, and use some sort of protection.
2007-03-16 14:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by ¥§Anaşia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a horny guy. Wait for the right time
2007-03-16 14:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think you are ready girls are alot more matture then boys are they also matture faster and i men way faster so yea your ready i know people that are younger then you and are in seriuos relationships
2007-03-16 14:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, sweetie.
Youre not ready until you know that you are. Soberly.
2007-03-16 13:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by love anyway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all subjective. just like not all people should have kids, or get married, or be astronauts....... you may be ready, you may not.
2007-03-16 14:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 13:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Richia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋