I fancied a person for some time, but thought I had no chance as he was better looking than me. However we ended up going to London together for a conference, discovered we had loads in common, and became friends.
Last night we went out as a group of five, and had a lot to drink. Everything was a bit hazy, then he kissed me. I passed it off as a joke, until it happened again, and I spent the night at his place (perfectly innocently- it hasn't gone past kissing.) In the morning I woke, and naturally thought that he might regret it. I asked him however, and he was said he didn't regret it in the least, that he'd been interested for some time.
However he has a lot of issues with intimacy having broken up just weeks before. He says he is not on the rebound, but admitted he could make no promises, and there is a mutual friend in common who I worry that she would rather not see him with me. How can I discuss these issues without him, without claiming too much intimacy, too soon?
2007-03-11
01:21:29
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Anya D
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