I love him. I'm not sure we are meant to be together, but I miss him so much. I want to know how he is, if he is alright(because he is in a really bad positionright now-not haveing much money and living in a room) I know he is not going to call me, and I want to call him so bad:( help me please
2007-03-11 01:25:07 · 18 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was on this whole trip where he said he did not ned anyone so he stopped hanging out with his friends and just said he wanted me, but then he said I was just slowing him down(which I kind of was:( I was not helping and just nagging around) and told me to leave.
I am avery emotional; person to begin with, I do not know what to do
2007-03-11 01:27:07 · update #1
I have to go to work crying...I can't stop thinking about him at work b//c i am so bored. I just keep thinking what if we are suppose to be together, what if I won't find anyone else?
2007-03-11 01:35:04 · update #2
Your answer is in your question. Help him instead of nagging him.
2007-03-11 01:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, the reason you two broke up isn't really, well, reasonable..maybe he was just upset when you nagged at him and asked you to leave? why not ask him if he'll have you back and that you'll try to be a better gf? if he accepts, then do things better, help him out and see beyond your personal pain. If not, then move on. Have fun with friends, enjoy things you like. I know it's easy to say but hard to do. it takes time. carry the pain, cherish the memories then trust in what GOD has to offer you
2007-03-11 10:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by itsnicetobequietsometimes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it pretty much shows that you are helplessly emotional. That could be a turn-off for some guys. Maybe if you pulled yourself together and just thought that the world is not as perfect as you would like it to be, then you will become more realistic and start enjoying life more. There are lots of people out there and if you think someone is perfect for you, then think again.
2007-03-11 09:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still having thoughts of him after you two have broken up shows that you're still willing to patch your relationship up. However, thats what always happen to people like you, you can't get over the relationship cause you feel that you've placed alot into it already. If you still feel that you two can still be together, then give him a call and hang out with him. But I would advise you against it, you've got to get over him.
2007-03-11 09:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first thought it doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing. But I once didn't love someone and they wanted me; of course this person I'm talking isn't capable of love. But I'd also say once again - and don't bring money into it because maybe he can make it without someone; some people just can't seem to fall in love easy enough. But its because they have a crazy side to them. ( falling in love easy can get a person harmed also ). If he doesn't come back forget him.
2007-03-11 09:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl I will tell you this it takes time and you will have to let him go . If he love you he will come back to you. I know u hurting but he may need his space so he can get his self together than work on you and him. please don't call let him call you so you want push him away. He will call when he get it together. A man needs space sometime so give it to him if he love you he will return. If not babygirl it was not meant to be. Being apart can help a relationship.
2007-03-11 10:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 5 days!! It took me almost a year to get over my ex. Don't call him. He's an ex for a reason. If you call it'll take even longer to get over him. Get out and have fun. Call your friends and spend the day together. Do anything to get him off your mind. And give yourself more than 5 days...that's for sure. Don't worry, you'll be ok and you will move on.
2007-03-11 09:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't call him or beg him, he will just see u as weak. just wait and be patient, being too impatient causes us to get the wrong mates in life, and do the wrong things. it is not your problem to worry about him, since he was the one to break it off. if its only been 5 days give it some time to work itself out. if its meant to be it will be, he may be having some problems right now, he needs to work out before he can come back.
2007-03-11 09:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the scoop. You need to offer YOUR HEART! to someone. He wasn't wanting your Heart. He wanted something else. If he had your Heart? He would've never given it back. But he's not interested. So go give yours, to someone that will offer his, in return. And not a minute before. You're keeping someone form being happy! Get out there and find him!!
2007-03-11 09:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello friend
1.calm down.
2. are u sure its LOVE and not an insecurity tht u won't find another?
3. give him 2-3 more days to sweat. NO HARM IN TELLING HIM THT U MISS HIM STILL. maybe it was just a lover's tiff?
be brave...TALK it out maturely. you may reach a sensible decision yet.
all d best
P.S: make sure that it duznt happen every time, that is, he is rude to you and you phoning him still. tc, i am sure things will work out!
2007-03-11 09:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its my day 7 for me. im in love with my ex finace still. I know how it feels to want to know every move that he makes..you have been together with him for so long. i mean we were together 4 years. just keep taking it day by day. i dont think we can force the issue. im feeling for you also i want to call him and talk to him but im just letting things work they way they should...(still hoping that he comes back)
2007-03-11 09:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋