we had an hour long lunch date.
around 10 pm that night i text him saying
you're good person and i had fun and blah blah.. he replied me saying he had fun too and he wants to hang out with me AGAIN SOON. and i didn't reply for his message.(because i was about to sleep.)
and he hasn't contact me for 3days...
he knows i am busy...... but still...
is he just not interested??? is that why he is not calling me or texting me for 3 days??
or
is it because i didn't reply for his message??
or
is it because he thinks i am busy so he doesn't want to bother me by contacting too often???
and if you were the guy, why are you not contacting me for 3 days after the first date?
2007-03-11 01:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its just that you didnt contact him maybe he thinks your not interested because you never said anything after he said he wanted to hang out again. i know i would call or text if i was him
2007-03-11 01:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by loved and lost all in one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys play this game, because they want to be in control.
And, some girls do this to guys because they are very attractive and can have pretty much any guy they want, (or so they think.)
I wouldn't worry about the three day rule, unless you have something very important to say to him and you haven't known him long enough for that. Just go about your life, don't be clingy and if you don't hear from him, then, he is not thinking of you and definately not worth your time. Just remember too that most men are very insecure and hide that insecurity well. Be smarter than them, and look behind the surface.
2007-03-11 09:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just prob a hectic schedule! i mean, everyone gets tied up sometimes... just try waiting for him to initiate contact between the two of you...every guy knows that you have to at least reply back to a girl... unless he's a jerk... then just drop him like a bad habit... :D
2007-03-11 09:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by rocker_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, DAMN, why do you make it so complicated? CALL HIM.
2007-03-11 09:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh !!! He is not interested.
PS: A daytime "date" is not really a date. (unless you do it)
2007-03-11 09:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋