2007-03-11 01:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by Timawa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Seems like the more money the better now a days :(
Also keep separate accounts .. just in case .. til you know for sure you can trust him and know him better than the back of your hand!
2007-03-11 01:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you be a little more clearer on this question? Who's assets, yours or from him? If you get a prenup and it is for you, if you truly love him what does it matter, it is just material items and this is not what makes us happy. All though most people think it is, it is finding yourself that makes your truly happy and finding somebody who is on the same page as you are in life and then you both will make each other so happy you will not believe it. So find yourself, forget the assets and then get married.
2007-03-11 10:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by teressahousley@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well normally i wouldn't waste my time answering this type of questions , but this one caught my eye because of what i went through, i started my company back in 1999 and now employee over 300 workers , there is NO WAY i would ever allow my self or this business to become vulnerable again to a divorce , my ex who i was only married to for 4 years , attempted to take 1/2 the corporation , the good thing is she lost (she cheated , and never worked a day in the company) so if you have assets PROTECT THEM , yes love is great , love is fine , but I'm not going to lose my behind PRENUP !!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but a prenup just sounds like you are anticipating being a statistic.... you know 50% end in divorce....
That's a bad way to start.
when we got married, I stopped college to work full time to put my husband through grad school. He was recruited right out of school, so I got to go back and finish.. there was no "your money or my money" it was ours... it had to be.. there wasn't a lot of it then.
So.. if you were to do this, then what happens if he buys you something? Do you keep a catalog as to what was purchased jointly, or what was a gift.. oh my.. where does it end???
I never thought to check his bank balance, or mine before we got married.
2007-03-14 23:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a prenup, then you don't love or trust him and that is doomed from the get go. Aquire all your stuff and just screw him on occassion. Prenups are for people who already know that divorce is in the future. Why bother? By the way, Marguerite, Britney makes her own bed. She should have to lie in it.
2007-03-11 09:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by docelec2000 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
What you are asking is that you want to acquire a lot of stuff, which would take some time, then get a prenup, then marry him. ??? Am I missing something here.
2007-03-11 09:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is not a case of gaining assets first.
Should you decide to marry, a good "ANC" will protect you in the future, for what ever mis-fortune occurs.
eg: divorce, liquidation, bankruptcy
Having an "ANC" is essential.
2007-03-11 09:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by calexico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly....let him get the assets....and then marry him.
Look at poor Britney Spears and the others that get abused by guys because they have assets.
I would never let this happen to me ever...and if you are good looking its even worse. Look to the guy with assets..thats what the smart girls do..the others build their assets to be taken...
2007-03-11 09:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Maggi 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You don't even have to do that. You can get a prenuptial agreement that says that anything you make DURING the marriage is yours. I know because I had a friend who got one.
2007-03-11 10:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever happened to love? I thought that was the reason for marrying not what a person can gain. Get your priorities right.
2007-03-11 09:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by suzzie 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋