Your girl brakes up after 5 years and just want to be friends but then is seeing another guy would that upset you would you still want to be her friend.I stoped talking to her .She still calls and just hangs up.I even got fixed so there would be no problems because she has one child and doesent want another.I have a problem letting the past go free and think of her everyday wishing she came back.The hard part of it all I use to watch her child which is special needs on the weekends to give her time to herself and spend time with her during the week.I use to clean her house and give her 110%..I thought this was the one .5 long years of her saying she loves me and now I am lost..She wonders why we are not friends I told her if you dident do it the way of dropping me for another guy I would of been friends .I have a hard time letting go.I am so so lost ...And the worst part of it is she works at my job with me...
2007-03-11 01:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by DR.Frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my gosh! Im so sorry for you, although i know you dont want any sympathy. I think you were a great boyfriend. Perfect, maybe. I dont think she really considered your feelings. It seems as though your whole life was centered around her. And now you feel empty, and alone. I know alittle how you feel. I did the same, accept my bf dumped me a few weeks before our first anniversary. The only think that can really help is to keep yourself busy. Maybe change your shifts at your job so you dont have to see her. Good luck.
2007-03-11 01:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation you're in right now. but you know what? here's what I've been thinking. maybe it isn't her fault that she's falling for another guy. come to think of it, maybe you and her are not just meant for another. stop dwelling on the past and move on. It hurts more when you think of the past and hope that you can bring it back. simply accept things as they are. being able to accept the truth makes it easier for you to let go. do things you enjoy. hang out with friends. the pain subsides this way. i'm doing the same thing. i'm not yet over 'it' but i'm getting there..
2007-03-11 03:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to marry her. You "fixed" yourself for her and this relationship. If you ever do find love with another person, you can't give her children. So this is the one you should try to be with. You can't reverse what you have done. Working with her is just going to make it harder. Can you quit and work somewhere else? She really sounds unclear of what she wants, and no one can fix that.
2007-03-11 01:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My scenario is similar to yours except that my kid is not special needs and that I was the one who broke up with my wife. Some women are just shallow and like to take advantage. Move on.
2007-03-11 01:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋