Well, this isn't a confession site, it's for serious questions
especially in this section. I made the mistake of sleeping with a married woman years ago. Did nothing for my ego.
Had a lot of guilt and hated what I'd done. It will come back
to bite you someday. Believe me.
2007-03-11 01:19:42
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answer #1
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answered by redman 5
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ok i'm not gonna cut u down cuz obviously there is an underlying reason for this. personally i think u have a fear of commitment. u sleep with married men because they r already committed therefore won't pressure u into commitment. of course it gives u an ego boost because ANY guy u sleep with will tell u how beautiful u r and say ALL the things he thinks u need to hear. u prob have been hurt really bad by some guy in your life therefore gave u this fear. speaking from a married woman's point of view though it isn't all your fault (though u wouldn't get away with it if it were my husband) but it is the husband's fault also. there has to be a reason the married men are sleeping with u. i will tell u to be real careful with what u r doing though. not only r there std's out there but prob a bunch of pretty ticked off women and when u mess with another woman's husband the consequences could be fatal. so be careful and look inside yourself to see why u r this way. u deserve someone that u don't have to share and that will put YOU and ONLY YOU on a pedestal. good luck to u
2007-03-11 03:26:20
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answered by a very happily married woman 3
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You obviously have self esteem issues. If you were soooo dam sexy, then the SINGLE men would be throwing themselves at you as well. The married and so called rich men are USING YOU! They know you like the money and that you will keep your mouth shut. They aren't leaving their wives, they love them (or so to speak). You are just a lay to them. EGO boost isn't the proper statement, sense of no commient and adrenaline rush, and THINGS is what you mean. One day when you find mister right, you will question his faith and one day the shoe will be on the other foot. You need to think of what that women is going through being cheated on by her husband. How would you feel? You are playing a dangerous game. One day one of these wives is going to find out about you and find you!!!! These are peoples lives, families and futures here. GET OUT, FIND YOURSELF A SINGLE MAN AND LOVE HIM, NOT HIS THINGS!!!!!
2007-03-11 03:16:44
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answer #3
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answered by momma 2
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ok, Let me put it this way to you, does this life satisfy and fulfil you? Or does it just leave you wanting more?? Because what your doing if it hasn't already will leave you feeling empty and wanting more, and more, till your satisfied, but no matter what, it WON'T satisfy you. Your the Harlot that's described in Proverb's Chapter 5 in the Bible, the one that it says to STAY away from!!! I hope that you learn the truth and give up your immoral ways and ask God to forgive you. I can guarentee you that your life will have more meaning and purpose. Istead of throwing it away by having sex with anyone. Besides what your doing is adultery having sex with a man who's married to another woman no matter what you think about his wife, is WRONG!!!!
Think about the damage this can do to his family by you and him having sex.
That's the problem, people start having sex behind their spouses back and lying without thinking at all what damage their cheating can and will cause in the family.
I hope that you come to your senses and give this stupid life of adulterous sex with married men up.
2007-03-11 01:49:08
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answer #4
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answered by Bryan M 5
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Unlike everyone else I am not going to suggest you are a whore, because the man is the one breaking his vows. But you really need to think about why sleeping with married men boost your ego. Do you have self esteem issues that causes you to constantly seek approval and acceptance? Are you sleeping with them because you feel the need to feel special and "chosen" over their spouse? Are you doing it because you don't want the stress and drama that comes with a real relationship and married men give you the fun without the stress? Just really think about why you are doing what you are doing. Your answer to that question will help you get better insight into you and your situation. Personally I can't see a positive reason to sleep a married man.
2007-03-11 01:31:18
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answer #5
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answered by tresnique2003 1
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Should it, though? You may be one of many for him, but he only has one wife that he returns to. My guess is that you're not married which means you haven't won the prize -- a booby prize, maybe (pun intended). The good thing is that you will always fear women such as yourself obliterating any serious relationships that you intend on having. You'll never know if your man is being faithful to you. You may find one that will be devoted to you... Or, maybe you'll skip the whole relationship thing altogether to avoid getting hurt by someone like you. Whether you choose to be in a relationship or abstain from one, you'll never trust the one you're with. You'll always fear that he'll do to you what those married men have done to their wives. You'll second-guess every man that you're with. Your egotism comes at a price, and your trust in people is spent all at your doing.
2007-03-11 01:50:13
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answer #6
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answered by lilcurious 3
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As hard as it may be for you to believe (with your giant ego), not all married men would be interested in a sleaze like you. Some of us prefer our wives, you couldn't hold a candle to mine.
You need to check your ego at the door! No matter what you may think of yourself, you're nothing but a selfish, self-centered, conceited whore. I hope you're proud of yourself after you contribute to the breakup of a marriage, it isn't only the wife you are hurting, what about the innocent children?
I hope someday, if anyone has the misfortune to marry you, some sleaze as selfish as you returns the favor ..............
2007-03-11 01:29:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Wow, you sound like a wh0re with no self-esteem.
I'm a married man and I wouldn't give you more than the time of day.
If you really want an ego boost go buy a battery operated boyfriend. He won't let you down... until you need more D-cells.
2007-03-13 12:16:41
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answered by Anonymous
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IF YOU ARE THAT SEXY, WHY DON'T YOU DO THE RIGHT THING AND MEET A NICE SINGLE GUY, WHO WILL LOVE YOU. LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE MESSING AROUND AND DOING WRONG. IF YOU WERE THE ONE WHO WAS BEING CHEATED ON DON'T YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE HURT?? I'M JUST STATING FACTS. LATER ON IN LIFE, YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND REALIZE HOW WRONG YOU WERE. THESE'S GUYS ARE USING YOU.... AREN'T YOU WORTH MORE THEN THAT?? A GOOD SINGLE GUY CAN BOOST YOUR EGO AND LOVE YOU TOO! DO THE RIGHT THING.. FIND IT IN YOUR HEART. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-11 03:48:47
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answer #9
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answered by kathy p 3
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they throw themselves at ya because yer easy ! it doesnt make ya sexy when you ruin a marriage it makes you the ugliest person in the world and when ( and if ) anyone is foolish enough ta marry you, there will never be a day when you arent suspicious of him because of what yer doing now, sadly ta say there are alot af tramps out there like you.
THINK KARMA !!! and know that yers is nasty !!
2007-03-11 01:53:13
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answered by Anonymous
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It shows your inferiority complex very clearly.
You choose married guys because you know you cannot have them. Then you can justify that you don't have a man because they are already married.
What a load of crap....the guys get turned on because of their low inferiority complex..they are ego boosted because someone other than their wife wants them..it doesn't matter who...they get free sex and know they do not ever have to be committed as they can say ' am married'.
Grow up and try to get a man for yourself...or you will end up a sad embitterd old lady
2007-03-11 01:16:44
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answer #11
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answered by Maggi 4
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