Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

a few months ago i went through my bfs phone and found a text message that i almost broke up with him about. he called a girl "baby" (long story) but anyway now i feel he is paranoid im going to look through his phone and i tell him ur being secretive and hes just sick of hearing it so hell just say please dont start with me. i really dont know what to do . i tbothers me sooo muchhhh

i know a guys phone is privacy bla bla but still i never wanted to go threw it or felt i had to until i found that text. any advice

2007-03-11 04:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 04:51:47 · 3 answers · asked by ethan b 1 in Singles & Dating

OK here it goes!! There is this guy,&i thnk like him, and i am trying to see if he likes me too. I have 1 class(out of 6) with him and our assigned seats are right next to each other. I had always noticed that he was cute, but i never actully was interested un til he started talking to me,and stuff. He has come up to me once or twice in the hallways inbetween classes,and he talked to me once when i was reading in the hallway. However we have lunch together,and he has never attempted to sit by me. We talk about regular stuff(i am very girly, but really into sports) so we talk about games and stuff. He plays baseball and so does my brother so we have talked about that. p.s my brother is 9. does he like me or not?

2007-03-11 04:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by Lexi W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very wonderful boyfriend, he is very good to me and we get along quite well. I am having one problem though, he is VERY grabby, touchy, pushing, pulley.
He always has to grab my boobs, pinch my nips, grab onto me, pull me toward him (and he is very rough), a few times he has left bruises. If he leaves to go somewhere, ie work in the morning...etc...he can never just give me a sweet nice kiss, it has to be this big Porno kiss. I hope I am explaining all this clearly, it is like he is WAY over the top. I like affection, but not all this man handling. I have tried to tell him on several occasions, but he seems to just blow it off. I am getting to the point where I don't want to spend as much time with him because this gets on my nerves and wears me down. I would hate for this relationship to end though, I truly do care and love him. Help me try and get this across to him.
Thank you.

2007-03-11 04:50:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate to look like an idiot but this is some ongoing stuff between me & this guy. The other day he asked to borrow $100, I sent it, then canceled it bcz I felt like a SUCKER. Bcz during xmas/my b-day, I sent him, his son & mom alotta gifts & sent him $$ once bcz he lost his job. He didn't so much as send me ONE CARD. Since then his son died. There's more to the story his son was ABUSED. I told him it's HIS FAULT his son died bcz HE wasn't doing his JOB as a PARENT & all the signs of abuse were there, he didn't do nothing about it & now his son is gone. He got mad & said nasty things, we argued for 2 days. Later my conscience bothered me & I apologized. He told me "F your apology". Now I feel like I made a BIGGER fool out of myself for apologizing after I argued with him in a NASTY ARGUMENT for 2 days. Why do I feel like a fool for apologizing bcz he said "F your apology"? What's to be said about him for replying to my apology that way?

2007-03-11 04:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

What should you do on Sundays?
Besides going to church and what not.
Everyone in my family is just being lazy and laying around. And its boring. I don't want to sleep all day.

2007-03-11 04:47:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have had an argument with my son and he has stopped me from seeing my grandkids but the worst part of all is they live next door and if the children speak to me they get in trouble. I have always been close to my grandchildren and it is tearing me apart . Please can somebody help me in what to do as i know my grandchildren want to see me.

2007-03-11 04:47:39 · 11 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Family

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.

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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???

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has it beenn 2 long??

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please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing

2007-03-11 04:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Singles & Dating

Cold Water

My name is Sara Yates. I’m 12 and had a brother, Max who was 15. Well he was 15 until last year. Max had dark brown hair that flipped out at the ends, blue eyes and was very strong. I have medium dark brown hair and brown eyes. You might say that we look like twins but I am adopted and so is he. His parents live in Minnesota but mine I don’t even know. My parents said I could look for them on my 18th birthday.
It all happened at the State meet at the University of Minnesota.
We were both on the YMCA Tilde Waves, I was the swimmer and he was the diver. Max was so excited to go off the high board. The high board is the highest board in the building, about forty-five feet high. I could never do that I can go off the 20 foot one but not the high board. I looked over to the divers, all girls. That’s probably why he wanted to be on the dive team, the girls.

2007-03-11 04:46:17 · 8 answers · asked by kkamdog 2 in Singles & Dating

any suggestions?

2007-03-11 04:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by Stevo K 1 in Friends

okay well there is a girl at my high school and she pisses me off every frikin day!! she grabed my hair and yanked me back so i would talk to her about the homework in biology.. it was so funny though because my friend started to curse her off. Hilariouss. okay but anyway she is always yelling at me.. I DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING TO MAKE HERE DO THIS!! how do i get her to stopp????!?

2007-03-11 04:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im good friends with this chic i work with.

I asked her out ages ago and we had a great time (felt like a date). After that I asked her out again, but she said she was confused atm. A week later i asked her to hang out again, i did it over the phone and i was nervous as hell, and made a complete fool out of myself, couldnt speak, and she said she wanted to stay friends for now.

Since then (bout a month) she has been very touchy feely with me (but she is that kinda person), and we do talk a hell of lot and we flirt A LOT, and now she wants to organise a study sesssion every week, and were not even doing the same course .

She also keeps asking me to organise work gatherings so we can hang out, and often mentions what days she is free just randomly.

I think i scared her with my nervousness, but what do i do now, i cant ask again, itll make me look pathetic

I know she likes me more than a friend, but not sure if its enough for a bf.

2007-03-11 04:43:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has a cell with unlimited phone access. Long distance , text messaging, etc. What would be the benefit?

2007-03-11 04:43:42 · 19 answers · asked by areyoukidding 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I just become a monk? women always end up the same way ....! all my friends say the same thing

2007-03-11 04:43:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love reading books but Ilike to afford on my budget .my Father wants me to read old books. what should I do?

2007-03-11 04:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by cool_lovely_bossy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i liked this girl, she is a freshman and im a sophmore. I dont know her much and she never talks to any guys. Is it a good way to start a conversion by asking her about the art homework cause she is in my art class? It seemed that she always tried to make eye contact with me and i see her brush her hair and looking at me sometimes. She is very shy and we have completely different friends. Please help me out everyone?thanks

2007-03-11 04:42:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was out with a few mates last night including a mate called Jennifer...later on in the bar, we both began to get drunk and we kissed passionatly on the dance floor. Later on when we got home to my friends house we secretly went upstairs and carried on where we left off and then i went home.
The problem is...I don't know what to do when i next see her in a sober state?!

2007-03-11 04:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by Rich S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have talked with several men who claim they have nude photos of their wives. They say that their wives trust them to not show them to other men, but some of them have. My question is "Does any woman truly believe that her husband will NOT show her nude photos to other men?" And is she being terribly naive to believe that he will not? Do these women have a secret desire to show themselves naked to other men?

2007-03-11 04:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been over many asian dating sites, but they all sucks. What is the best place to find honest women from asia online?

2007-03-11 04:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Samuel876 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl I know kissed me on the side of the head after I said she looked younger than she is. Now, although she is a very 'touchy feely' person, I think this could be a sign. What do you think?

2007-03-11 04:40:38 · 17 answers · asked by mark p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 04:40:33 · 22 answers · asked by blondieshebamonty 1 in Singles & Dating

misa

2007-03-11 04:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by nzr_dok 1 in Family

i wanna hold my boyfriends hand today at the movies. but i dont wanna just like grab his hand...do i just tap his thigh and put my hand waiting there open for him to put his hand in mine?? do i just grab his hand? what do i do without looking like im anxious or bugging him.?? ♥

2007-03-11 04:38:42 · 16 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 04:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by with 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is dating this beautiful Japanese girl and she seems to look after his every whim. I tell her not to do everything but she seems to adore it. Is this normal within the culture? Just interested to know

2007-03-11 04:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 04:37:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I go and get her or let her find her own way back.???
(She is 80 deaf and forgetful) and the rugby is on for another 50 minutes

2007-03-11 04:37:10 · 25 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 04:33:45 · 22 answers · asked by AMSU 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandpa died this morning at 7 o' clock, every body in my family is really upset, including my aunt, his daughter. Please pray for me and my family as we go through this tough loss.

2007-03-11 04:33:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi! my sister broke up with her 4yr old BF yesterday, they said they needed to take some time off bcause they wanted to settled down some differences, i think they'd reach an arguing for everything phase, they said they love each other and will still be friends,i don't if they'll be back, but one thing i know is that my sister is very sad and i don't know how to help her. her BF is my best friend and like a brother to me, my sis and i are very close; can you give me an advice on how to help my sister with her break up? thanks

2007-03-11 04:33:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anne Greco 2 in Family