I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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7 minutes ago
I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
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2 days ago
has it beenn 2 long??
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23 minutes ago
please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing
2007-03-11 04:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you guy's should talk it over as friends first then look at your future again-hope I helped!
2007-03-11 04:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by orpa920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you need to tell her the truth. Start off by telling her that you love her too. then say I know you dont trust me because of the text message. then tell her that it wasnt sent by you. and tell your sis that you are telling this girl that. That way if the girl asks your sis, then she will be ready to take the heat. if she knew what all was going on, then she cant be as upset. but just so you know, she may not trust you completely, because you DID lie to her.
2007-03-11 12:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by hello_kitty_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, calm down , is the most important now ,yes you can and you need to ,any decision taken under delirious : pain ,fear, jealousy or anger is usually wrong , to regain a love can take weeks , months , small talk , you can accept what she offers now , it might be a door to the next step ... because , you can talk about the matter under different circumstances ,under better circumstances ,and then you might regain her trust , and understand what really happen , it might take a lot of...reazoning and whining (yes...actually,apologizing) but if you really love her thats what probably will take you back to her , but yes ... please dont put yourself down , theres always a way ... calm down, make yourself better and ready for a possible second chance get busy getting yourself better than any choice she has made now or in the past so the obvious choice next be going back to you ....
2007-03-11 11:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not love you anymore. Wake up and stop asking the same question a million times! You are obessed.
2007-03-11 12:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by kwjt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were meant 2 b 2gether, u would b by now. u've gone thro 2 much bad stuff 2gether
2007-03-11 11:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds, I would tell her you want her back and then let it go,
2007-03-11 11:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u guys should talk.
2007-03-11 12:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋