How is the best way to handle this: I meet guys who are awesome guys but I'm not physically attracted to them....how do you handle it without hurting feelings? I believe in chemistry and if there is no spark, you can't start a fire...Or am I at the age of where I will never find that spark again? lol
2007-03-11 01:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Spaceyangel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me say, I'm not looking for a perfect 10 by ANY means, I'm not like that, but come on, if you aren't the least physically attracted.....I'm just wondering if after being hurt by an ex husband, I'll ever be able to feel that again.....
2007-03-11 01:17:13 · update #1
I agree with you 200%. I don't think chemistry can be created. I mean, yes, it can be "amplified" (for lack of a better term) but if you've gotta amplify it ALL THE TIME, it's gonna get real old real quick. Personally, I think you should just be honest with the guys. Tell them that while you had fun, there was no spark for you, and that that's something big you're looking for. I'm willing to bet that more often than not the guy won't be hurt, and will be pleased that you were honest with him from the get-go.
2007-03-11 01:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds slightly shallow. there are only sparks where sparks are made. also physical attraction can grow stronger if you care for the person
2007-03-11 01:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u are being picky which in itself ist a bad thing however try to let yourself go your feelings that is and see where it may lead you
2007-03-11 01:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u shud try to know them better mayb one of them can turn out to be ur man later on
2007-03-11 01:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problematic task. seek at search engines like google. this could actually help!
2014-12-05 15:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋