Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

2007-03-11 03:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by slumberdoll 2 in Singles & Dating

As you can see from the title, I finally got it together with someone I fancied (having posted a question a month ago about whether he did!) However I am not big on committment not because I do not want something special, but because I have low self esteem, and I wonder if I subconsciously chose this guy because I suspect he is not really committed?

I love his company- we have large amounts in common, share the same sense of humour, and I wondered if anyone could suggest some activities or things to do which would allow us to spend time together, and allow an element of mutual trust into the relationship. Any tips for how he really feels about me as well would be most welcome- things to watch out for!

Thanks

2007-03-11 03:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by Alexandria 3 in Singles & Dating

lately my partner of ten years cant have a conversion with me anymore if i ask something he swears at me and finds the slightest thing to moan about to have a go at me we have four children together and he just does what he wants all she does is sit there all day with baby

2007-03-11 03:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by sarah f 1 in Singles & Dating

my names meera,his name is karan...
so i need a name combined with our names
for example:
Elisa+Liam=Elia
help!!

2007-03-11 03:02:02 · 26 answers · asked by xxPunkxx + 1 in Singles & Dating

i made out with a girl at a party and i think she really likes me because she was coming on to me and i like her too
what should i do if i want to make this into a relationship

2007-03-11 03:01:49 · 3 answers · asked by blackbeltcc4 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 03:01:01 · 15 answers · asked by friend4all 2 in Friends

The subject is marriage. My man and I have been together for 7 years. We have 2 children together and have a great relationship. In the beginning we were both in agreement on the fact that marriage was somewhat of a dumb thing to do. Now, my thoughts have changed on the subject. I want it. I want the vows in front of friends and family and I want the celebration. Our daughter keeps asking about it, she wants her parents to be married. This is more than just a useless ritual to me now, it's very important to me. He stands firm, hates the idea of marriage, but is committed to me as if we were. I don't know why it has become so important to me, but it has. I wouldn't feel right trying to pressure him into it. What are your thoughts? Is it the standard story of why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? What makes you (not all of you, of course) fear or reject the idea of marriage when you are with someone you plan on growing old with?

2007-03-11 01:59:50 · 23 answers · asked by Trish 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 01:58:43 · 5 answers · asked by the innocent guy 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have been dating this new guy and weve been together for about 2 weeks he is the nicest sweetest guy in the world but my heart belongs to someone else my ex of 4 years i would give up life for him, anyways we hung out last night and we kind of umm ya know but it felt so right i didnt really feel bad about it cheating is wrong and i know that what i did wasnt right but when im with my ex no one else matters but we fight and argue alot thats why were not together so now i feel like i should break up with my boyfriend we have no chemistry hes the total opposite of me and we have nothing in common what should i say or do with the both of them

2007-03-11 01:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So on our second date she told me she is only seeing one person right now, someone she likes a lot. Then the other day, we were emailing back and forth and she was joking about being my bodyguard and I told her (jokingly) that it was just so she could keep all the other chics away from me so she could have me to herself. She replied back and played a long in a joking manner but now I am worried that she might think that I am playing her. She told me before that she does not make out until in a relationship and we do make out (though her myspace still says single like mine does) She is still taking to me so that is a good sign but I don't want her to think that I am playing her but at the same time I don't want to scare her away by telling her I am also only seeing only her.

What do I say?

2007-03-11 01:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorta picky when it comes to guys, I want someone smart and good looking, has an awesome sense of humor and is up for almost anything. Most guys I meet are too normal and try too hard to be "nice guys" when I'm not into that at all. Why is it that most guys are just too ordinary? Even the ones who claim to be a little weird are just a variation of normal... Or just plain gross...

2007-03-11 01:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by Annabella Stephens 6 in Singles & Dating

I did tell him I love him one day, he smiled at me and said, darling I love u to, then he turn back and said I meant what i say, and wonder should I be saying the three letter to u first.

To me, as long as he meant what he said, and i meant what say, it all good to us.

2007-03-11 01:56:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 01:55:08 · 19 answers · asked by rolanddburnard 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 01:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by slumberdoll 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 01:52:59 · 3 answers · asked by mikel 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont want to talk like its a lustful fuc*, I want to preserve the intimacy and sacredness of the act as much as possible. Thanks for the tips in advance!

2007-03-11 01:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been on two dates in the past month and talked for a month before going out at all, so we have known each other for two months.

On our second date she told me she is not seeing anyone else, only one person she likes a lot. There are other hints that she wants more like inviting me to church but two weeks ago she had told me it will be a while before she will be able to committ to anything TOO serious because she is afraid of getting hurt again.

Normally I would say that two dates is too soon to say I am only seeing one person right now, but is it too soon in this case since she told me that already? How can I say it in a way that does not scare her away or trap her in some kind of premature commitment? Speaking of which why all the mixed signals? Is she ready or not?

2007-03-11 01:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

I made a big mistake when I told a female coworker that I have a crush on that everyone in the room has wrinkles, I said even she has wrinkles although she is only 23. She didn't say anything at the time but I could tell she probably didn't care for the comment. Then yesterday she returned to work from a trip to Miami. I told her that she had some nice color, and looked good. She then said, yeah I put alot of sunblock on because I didn't want to burn myself, and end up with premature wrinkles. She's not going to let me forget that comment is she? Didn't I ruin my chances with a stupid comment?

2007-03-11 01:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my children have so many clothes always picking them up washing clean laundry i am waundering how many
pants shirts shorts skirts dresses etc do they really really need.

2007-03-11 01:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by Katheryn L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The only reason i thought of this question was because that other kid asked how to tell if a girl likes him, and i thought that question was easy. But then i started to wonder about guys. please answer. thanks!

2007-03-11 01:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since yesterday my mom just turned totally over protective. I have a good idea why though. My dad had to go to another state for a week to build our new house. When he left- let me just say, it was complete HELL. My mom made me take care of the dogs, clean, cook EVERYTHING! my older sister has a friend and she must of gave him my screen name online so yesterday he was talking to me. He really freked me out... because he said he was my sis's boyfriend and he seen her naked. I had to tell my mom. Ever since that, my mom wanted to se my profile on AIM and everything... now she wants a screen name and it's really annoying. She has been watching me like a hawk when I talk to my friends and shes really getting on my last nerve. I know she is just trying to protect me but what can i say to her that will back her off? I'm not a bad person!

2007-03-11 01:47:40 · 13 answers · asked by bella 1 in Family

You're still married, but separated. Does that make it ok to have sex with someone other than your spouse?

2007-03-11 01:46:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl in school who always jokes around with me and she kinda flirts with me. I have only known her for a month and she just got a "bf" about 2 days ago i know the guy what do i do.

2007-03-11 01:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Fins2 1 in Singles & Dating

okay.. My bf always like, i walk you home but he says it knowing i will see 'no, i will be okay' so he doesnt have to but he did ask... not making him look bad..
So i have to cycle home at like 03:00 though the city, on my own.. is it wrong for me to think he should just say " i'm dropping you at home, i dont care what you say".
instead he send me a text asking wether i am at home.. but if i dont asnwer he doesnt really notice it..

Do you get were i am going, this way it looks like he cares and i cant say he doesnt....

i am wrong? what do you think? does your bf drop you off at home? should he?

2007-03-11 01:45:25 · 13 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

i want her to keep it up but seems to be slowly slipping away !how can i keep this from happening ? i need to know what is going on in her life without making her push away harder. in other words when she has a problem i want her to run to me to help not just her friends who have given her bad advice in the past .

2007-03-11 01:44:22 · 11 answers · asked by gands4ever 5 in Family

2007-03-11 01:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last few days i went for my CCA camp and then i wu z bathing in a toilet where there was no lock.when i wuz bathing the door accidently opened and my friend aw me totally naked and i was staring at him then i quickly cloes the door.

2007-03-11 01:42:45 · 7 answers · asked by help me 1 in Friends

Please help me with my jealousy?
i am so jealous of my friend because she got this babysitting gig at a church $5 dollars for every baby. but the thing is i am way more experienced than her. she was watching my twin neighbors once. they are about 1. but she had to call me bc she couldnt handle it. and then she ended up getting paid still when i did all the work. im trying to find more people to babysit or mabey a toutering gig for like a second grader. but i just get so jealous so easly. Please help

2007-03-11 01:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-11 01:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by rock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can't help it..i really like him..and my dad is like sarah..u need to be careful..i already kno that..EVERYONE tells me that he's head over heels for me...like obssesed with me..and i kno for sure that i really really really really really extremly like him..mayb even love him...were bestfriends..and we love hangin out with eachother..and it seems that everyone doesnt want me 2 like him..im just so confused..he's like the only person i hang out with..like...we do A LOT together..and everyone just puts us down..but i can't help it..and then im gettin **** from all my other so called 'friends' are nt hangin out with me anymore...i don't like hangin out with girls cuz they annoy me..i love hangin out with guys they r so fun and funny and always doing crazy stuff..they r so fun..and people are hating me for hangin out with people that i like hanging out with..whats their problem? and whats so bad about me being in love with a 13 year old? we get a long fine..no sex involved pervs..

2007-03-11 01:41:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating