relationship?

Question

lately my partner of ten years cant have a conversion with me anymore if i ask something he swears at me and finds the slightest thing to moan about to have a go at me we have four children together and he just does what he wants all she does is sit there all day with baby

Answer 1

why do you put the kids to bed early and both you and the your partner sit down and try and talk to each other let her talk first and when she is finished then you talk and see what you both say and see what else you can do
or you can get a baby sitter to look after your kids and go for a meal, do something together without the children and enjoy your self
good luck

Answer 2

Usually if "bickering", and other such not so nice conversations are the problem, I'd say, there is a good chance that there is another person in the play.
Often, by acting out this way, (unhappy), is another form of telling that they might want out of the relationship and behaving badly, would want to push the other person away and later (if splitting), blaming the other person, instead of finding fault with themselves

Answer 3

Since you have communication problems with each other, it seems like you guys need some marriage counseling. Good luck

Answer 4

What's the issue? Sounds like a healthy lesbian relationship to me.

Answer 5

you r mentally incompatible sexually OK the kids speak about that try improving communication.
i have observed that certain people born in certain years are always incompatible sexually and mentally yet they pull on in marriage 4 many reasons

Answer 6

maybe something is going on at work, or something, and he's taking it out on you.

Answer 7

One at a time please.