So on our second date she told me she is only seeing one person right now, someone she likes a lot. Then the other day, we were emailing back and forth and she was joking about being my bodyguard and I told her (jokingly) that it was just so she could keep all the other chics away from me so she could have me to herself. She replied back and played a long in a joking manner but now I am worried that she might think that I am playing her. She told me before that she does not make out until in a relationship and we do make out (though her myspace still says single like mine does) She is still taking to me so that is a good sign but I don't want her to think that I am playing her but at the same time I don't want to scare her away by telling her I am also only seeing only her.
What do I say?
2007-03-11 01:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her about the whole email think and tell her that you hope she doesnt think your playing her because your not like that. Tell her that she is the only one your seeing, i dont think you'll scare her.
2007-03-11 03:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the craziest post ever...
Great answer to the bodyguard question- ::fist pound:: respect.
Let's point out the crazy parts- she said she's seeing one person she likes a lot (implying its you) and you wonder if she likes you.
Then she tests you with the body guard comment seeing if you say something stupid like- no ill protect you or something a loser guy would say. But you didn't- you said the best thing possible. (the test is also an indicator of being liked)
She said she doesn't make out until in a relationship, you better be 13 b/c that's weird after grade-school, but she's making out w/ you. UMMMMMM- hello?!
Of course her MySpace profile says she's single- YOU HAVENT DONE ANYTHING TO MAKE HER THINK OTHERWISE! (CRAZZZZZY!)
Do you really care if she thinks you're playing her? WHO CARES?! Do you think a girl wants a guy that can get ONLY her, or does she want a guy that has women at his disposal ready to go at the drop of a hat, but PICKS her to spend his time with!?
And for being scared that you're going to SCARE HER AWAY!- DUDE! Everything this girl has done and said would have scared an UNINTERESTED guy away! Clearly you like her or you wouldn't be there! Now man up!
2007-03-11 10:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by toburn41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mess up... flattery is always appreciated by women! and as for the whole"no making out until a relationship but we did it anyway" it could mean that she's into you... that you're someone special to her... just tell her that you enjoy the time you guys spend together... it'll all work out in the end! hope it helps! :D
2007-03-11 10:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by rocker_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw puberty those were the days, dont trip whatever happens this will be one of the many more to follow. trust me
2007-03-11 10:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by u_abot_imnot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋