I dont want to talk like its a lustful fuc*, I want to preserve the intimacy and sacredness of the act as much as possible. Thanks for the tips in advance!
2007-03-11 01:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, for most guys, it's a huge turn on when their lady talks dirty during intimacy. It doesn't cheapen the act in any way. While most women appear to be prim and proper ladies, we usually have a "dirtier" side to us that comes out during love making. If you cant share that with your lover, is he really the one you ought to be with?
2007-03-11 03:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by mommainuk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Some guys will like that and others won't. I'm pretty sure that if you are at the point in your relationship where you want to have sex with him that you should know which type of guy he is.
Also, it depends on how you have behaved around him to this point. If you have always been reserved then talking dirty may seem like a turn off because that wouldn't seem like it went with your personality. If you have always been out going and energetic then he probably would expect see it as going well with the personality that he is used to. If you are the type of person that likes to talk dirty then go for it. Anyone worth being with will love that about you.
2007-03-11 01:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk dirty during sex, you will make an OBJECT out of yourself, and not a PERSON. You shouldn't even be having sex unless you're sure that this guy is the ONE for you. Regardless, it's your life and your decision. But if you really want to preserve the intimacy, say things MEANINGFUL, like, "I love you," or "I can't see myself with anyone else." If he freaks out, then you'll know he's not the one for you.
2007-03-11 01:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is go with the flow, i'm sure the moment will let it speak for its self, and if it bothers him, you may want to start searching for a replacement. cause i dont of any guys that would make a ***** if there woman talked dirty,most are bitching that they would/.
2007-03-11 03:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by u_abot_imnot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try telling him how bad you want him, or asking him what does he like doing best,. it's still talking dirty
2013-12-15 02:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if he can tolerate it. i talk dirty to my boyfriend all the time and he likes it and he gets turned on and we have our little "fun" always. it won't hurt.
2007-03-11 01:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by poshbaby24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try'n not like, uh, mispronounce anything you'll be babbling on about....
Why're you talking so much anyways?
2007-03-11 01:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by omnisource 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of person he is.But Mostly it depends on you, if you like to say it to him say it ,but if don't like it don't say it.Its that simple
2007-03-11 03:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes when i talk dirty.....he finds it sexy!
2007-03-11 01:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he will not loose respect for you.
2007-03-11 01:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋