I'm sorta picky when it comes to guys, I want someone smart and good looking, has an awesome sense of humor and is up for almost anything. Most guys I meet are too normal and try too hard to be "nice guys" when I'm not into that at all. Why is it that most guys are just too ordinary? Even the ones who claim to be a little weird are just a variation of normal... Or just plain gross...
2007-03-11 01:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by Annabella Stephens 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, don't worry about it! Keep your standards high, and you'll find the right guy. It's always been my experience that the minute I stop looking for a boyfriend, I find one. Try focussing on something else for a while and see what happens. Good luck!
2007-03-11 03:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could compare this to a Google search. Type in one word and you will get THOUSANDS of results. Type in more words and your matching results been to deplete. I understand that it's not the easiest thing to control who or what you look for when it comes to guys...but you CAN control it, nonetheless. If you feel that there are no men out there for you, try widening your scope a little bit. Ask yourself, "Are the things that I don't want in a guy, really that intolerable? Or could I manage to be around someone who might have a case of that? Maybe it's not so bad."
If you're not looking for a nice guy, you should actually have an EASIER time finding someone who will fulfill your criteria. "Nice guys" are in much shorter supply nowadays. It seems like someone who's "off-normal" is still considered normal by your definition. And if you kick that up a few notches, it instantly becomes "gross." That's the hard thing about relationships. You can't be an "on/off" switch type person. NOBODY is plain black-and-white. You have to accept the shades of gray in between.
I think you should start saying "yes" a little more often -- take even more time to double- and triple-check your interests; see what you CAN tolerate and what you CAN'T. Then re-evaluate your requirements. Hope this helped.
2007-03-11 03:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think the same way, listen theres someone out there for everybody, it just might take some time dont be in any rush, play the field for a while, you cant just take the first person that comes along these days, i made that mistake a while back, 2 weeks before Christmas i jumped into a relationship i wasnt ready for, and thats how long it lasted2 weeks, and i got hurt and so did she, In the mean time try a couple of the dating sites i have listed their both free, Good luck. But beware of scammers on them.
2007-03-11 03:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you haven't met all the men on earth yet :) Of course, being picky is another reason, but it's how you are, then don't change the way you are. You'll find someone eventually.
But... you sound like you're disappointed. What are you looking for, someone extraordinary? Do you think it'll be a healty relationship if you find one?
Anyway...
2007-03-11 04:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur looking for "the one" for u just try to have fun u have to take good with bad like im a bit funny and have a bit of a dark sense of humor but im not all that smart nd im not big head enough to class my self as good looking
2007-03-11 03:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew it.you've been lusting after me since the first time you saw me post.i bet you were crushed to find out im engaged.well,too bad.
2007-03-11 23:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Robert R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋