so i have been dating this new guy and weve been together for about 2 weeks he is the nicest sweetest guy in the world but my heart belongs to someone else my ex of 4 years i would give up life for him, anyways we hung out last night and we kind of umm ya know but it felt so right i didnt really feel bad about it cheating is wrong and i know that what i did wasnt right but when im with my ex no one else matters but we fight and argue alot thats why were not together so now i feel like i should break up with my boyfriend we have no chemistry hes the total opposite of me and we have nothing in common what should i say or do with the both of them
2007-03-11 01:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no your not a horribel person , but you should tell the other guy that it is not him it is you. And you don't think you should see each other anymore.
2007-03-11 03:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the new guy go before it goes too far. I know what you mean, this has never happened to me but after four years it will be hard to let go of anyone. You still need time without anyone. You're not a bad person at all, you just need to break up with the your new boyfriend because he didn't diserve that and it could happen again if you're still attached to your ex.
2007-03-11 03:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Emma M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any decency you will end your relationship with the new guy so he can find someone else decent. You and your ex sound as if you deserve each other, I'm sure you'll ultimately get what you deserve. BTW 'I would give up life for him' isn't a declaration of devotion - more an obsession.
2007-03-11 03:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you better leave that ex alone.. and dump the new guy too and figure out what the heck you are doing?????
you broke up with your ex cause things just weren't right... and you cheated on a guy you go out with but have no feelings for....
Why do you do that... everytime you go out with someone you are not interested in.. you tell yourself a lie
you tell yourself you deserve nothing better..than to be with someone that doesn't matter to you
and as granny always said
all the mayonaise in the world..can't make chicken salad out of chickenshit...
your life needs more than mayo.... FIX IT
2007-03-11 03:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not horrible. I believe that you like 2 people at the same time. It's just that you will never forgive yourself if you hurt this new guy. But your ex is your ex for a reason, so what's up?
2007-03-11 03:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So Tiffany how does it feel to be played by your ex
I have a son 21 he plays his girl friend the same way, he can't stand to see her with another guy. So here he comes just enough to break them up and then away he goes.
2007-03-11 03:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don'tfeel bad tif , you are a typical woman, my advice to you is keep doing what you are doing. some day your ex boy friend will get you pregnant and bail on you and you will run back to mr nice guy and tell him you are sorry and he will tell you , " what would i want with you now , you are damaged goods "
2007-03-11 04:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current boyfriend that you cheated on him with your ex and see how he takes it.
2007-03-11 03:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by blcria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself! If you loved him you would not cheat on him!
2007-03-11 03:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not, just... tel him ur seeing others right now and ur sorry.
2007-03-11 03:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋