okay.. My bf always like, i walk you home but he says it knowing i will see 'no, i will be okay' so he doesnt have to but he did ask... not making him look bad..
So i have to cycle home at like 03:00 though the city, on my own.. is it wrong for me to think he should just say " i'm dropping you at home, i dont care what you say".
instead he send me a text asking wether i am at home.. but if i dont asnwer he doesnt really notice it..
Do you get were i am going, this way it looks like he cares and i cant say he doesnt....
i am wrong? what do you think? does your bf drop you off at home? should he?
2007-03-11 01:45:25 · 13 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asks, but it doesnt feel like he means it and i dont want te be a burden, so i say no:( but hate cycling in the dark...
2007-03-11 01:54:07 · update #1
I get where ure comin from - im the same, ill say 'no, ill b o.k.' when i really want him to say - noway r u walkin/cycling home by urself - ur too precious!! Some guys just dont get subtle hints!! Tell him u don't feel safe by urself and u want someone tough and strong to look after u (that way he'll walk u home AND he'll feel good cos uve complimented him)!! If he still wont walk ya home then mayb u shouldnt b wiv someone who doesn't care enough for u to walk u home in the middle of the nite when there can b some real creeps about!
Hope i helped chick!
xxxxxxx
2007-03-12 02:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Whisper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi you are in love ...of course but come on his he so much in love with you, you don't text him back some times you say you have arrived home some times but does he ring your phone to hope you answer it , or wait for the knock on the door that you have been in an accident on your bicycle by the police . Try not taking your bicycle next time and see if he will walk you home , or get a taxi for you. The city is an evil place at night, my partner when we were courting in no circumstances would he let me get home alone, He made sure I got into my house and locked the door behind me .
2007-03-11 10:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by bonniebella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your boyfriend should drop you home without question.
I am sure he would if you asked him too; this isn't the type of situation where you should be questioning whether he cares, or means what he says. This is all about your personal safety.
So please just talk to him about it, communicate with each other. Then when you do, you can ask him about how much he cares for you, & how you feel his words carry no meaning.
You may find you learn alot him when you do!
2007-03-11 10:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth you say no to his offer to take you home then accuse him of not doing so? He phones you later wanting to know you are okay show he does care. Isn't your relationship not firm enough for you to tell him the truth that you hate cycling home alone so late at night?
2007-03-11 10:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh ...wow...it doesnt seem like he cares for you...or well if he does, then he doesnt care enough! my bf always drops me off...even if i dont ask!lol and u know what...if u r really special to ur bf and u mean alot to him...he would make sure he gets u saftly at home! i hope u get things sorted! Good luck!
2007-03-11 09:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by winterose* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe in a power of language. u can talk, can't u? he clearly asked u whether he should drop u home. so u could have just said "yes". but u preferred some mind games. human beings do not posess the ability to read other humans' mind. u want something - say it. he can't read your mind and moreover - he DOESN'T NEED TO
2007-03-11 09:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should drop you home. period. or leave earlier...
anything can happen these days out there.
i dnt think he is sincere. i would never have let my ex go out alone at that time...especially on a bike. why cant you just stay at his for the night.
you should call his bluff next time and see how willing he is
2007-03-11 10:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by deldarko1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf drops me off at home cuz its dark when i go home.
what he do if something happened to u? u make it sound like he doesnt really care.
2007-03-11 10:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by kelcihrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like mine to over-ride my "no I am Ok" and take me home!!!!!
2007-03-11 09:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Roma O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fo shizzle ma nizzle
2007-03-11 09:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Random Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋