me and my bestfriend have been close for 4 yrs. but we fight all the time it can be over some pretty dumb stuff sometimes. we have friends who fight everyday and i think we are turning into them. we are suppose to go to college together but i dont know anymore if i want to go with her cuz if we get in a really big fight then i'll be stuck there by myself.. i dont know what do do anymore
2007-03-11 01:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by loved and lost all in one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Probably not, you will have jobs, new friends, and will drift apart.
2007-03-11 01:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you want to be best friends forever, it takes effort staying in touch after you each go your separate ways. I have been out of school now for 31 years and my best friend and I stay in touch and get together from time to time. As a friend you have to know when they are down and need somebody when they are really trying to push you away for what ever reason. Life is full of hurts and disappointments and as individuals we will change from age to age. I am not the same persona I was just 5 years ago, but as a friend I have grown with my friend and we both have been their for each other through thick and thin and have even had a really bad fight with some nasty letters. But you can ask for forgiveness and if they are truly your friend they will forgive you for the way you acted.
2007-03-11 10:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by teressahousley@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rest easy, on the fighting Fears! Once you see yourself as out of High School? You start seeing that you're gonna have to be acting like a Grwonup. And most of those arguements are gonna pass. And you'll be Best Pals, for years to come. She's gonna need you as much as you know you need her. You'll do fine.
2007-03-11 09:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the contrary! if you just patch things up with your friend, you guys will work it out... fighting is normal between friends...it means that you are individuals, not just a clone of each other... as for college, just remember to keep in touch constantly...maybe the occasional visit...and things with you and your buddy will just be fine! :D
2007-03-11 09:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by rocker_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are both in college you will make new friends. Keep your relationship good right now and you will have good memories of it. Don't expect anything to last forever.
2007-03-11 09:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best friends we know while in our teenage and younger, usually lasts forever. The bond is surprisingly strong.
2007-03-11 09:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋