Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

I have been married 8 years, things are okay, but could be a lot better. The issue is, he's a complete homebody. Never goes out, has no friends at all besides me, and does not want any. That said, I do want to go out and do things, but have very few friends to do so with, in fact, none where I live. My pals are in NE and Canada! What do I do? Do I sit there with him in the easy chair and rot away or what? I want to go places by myself, but he says it's too dangerous, watch your back. Please help...any advice appreciated!

2007-03-11 06:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has recently asked me for advice as she is torn between two guys who are both interested in her. I am her best mate so she doesn't go to anybody else for advice. She is a very pretty Chinese girl (and when I say pretty I mean drop dead gorgeous). The first guy pursuing her is Japanese. He's very nice but quiet. My friend likes him very much. The second guy is White-British. He's fun and makes her laugh. Since she is fond of them both equally she does not know what to do. No jokes please...she can't have both of them of course! Any advice? Serious answers only.

2007-03-11 06:34:38 · 16 answers · asked by Cassidy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:32:12 · 8 answers · asked by leelee53 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:31:54 · 1 answers · asked by mcjh_chick2012 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am trying to figure out what I want my bridesmaids to wear. I cant afford to buy theres so I was thinking black dresses (every girl needs one). I really like the new "short" style and allowing them pick an upper half that best suites their body type and then a sash or something that goes with the color. At first I thought about letting them buy a black dress on their own but deep down I kind of would like them to match somehow. Is that rude of me?

2007-03-11 06:31:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How many women have been with an older guy and really enjoyed the sex, please let lose.

2007-03-11 06:29:26 · 12 answers · asked by terryodell42 4 in Singles & Dating

I really like my guy friend and i have the feeling he likes me too. He gives me a lot of signals that makes me think so. Thing is he sometimes walks up to me, like quite close then either just walks on or turns and walks away. I get the feeling he wants to kiss me but like backs out of it. What can i do to give him the signal that it's ok to kiss me? What sort of things can i do that will make him go for it? I know i could just do it myself but he's had a lot of probs and i don't want to make him feel awkward so i'd like it if we go any further then it's on his terms. But what sort of things can i try tto like give him the 'come on'!

2007-03-11 06:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

fart?

Is it possible to time travel?

Is there a sasquatch?

Am I black?

2007-03-11 06:28:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-11 06:27:42 · 12 answers · asked by i wnt a bf who dnt cheat or lie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really know that those three questions are very stupid, but i really want to know sth about you!
My name is María Guadalupe
I'm 17 years old (nearly 18)
I'm from Argentina.
What about you?
Tell me people!

2007-03-11 06:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Joy 3 in Friends

2007-03-11 06:26:20 · 14 answers · asked by tally_fan 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom went into the hosiptal and my sister who lives locally helped make things run smoothly. I called and asked my mother if she needed me to take a plane trip over and help. She said that she did not need my help. Now my mother is telling me that she wanted me to come and I should have known to visit anyway.

2007-03-11 06:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by BR 3 in Family

I know there’s something, that I do not see
But I can feel it, all around me
It gives me warm feelings, when I act really good
As I get older, I now act as I should

It might be my age, that I am starting to feel
Helping my soul, I am trying to heal
When I now sleep, beside my new wife
I do remember, those times in my life

I wasn’t perfect I did all the things
That being young, we just called them flings
My mind wasn’t molded, I didn’t think clearly
I think I hurt people, that I loved real dearly

I heard of angels, but I truly don’t know
If they were around me, shouldn’t they glow
I’ve heard some stories, more good then are bad
For those who see angels, for you I am glad

Maybe sometime, someday or someplace
I’ll meet my angel, she’ll show her face
Something inside me, answers my plea
Why look for an angel, one sleeps beside me

2007-03-11 06:24:44 · 12 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have an acting auditon at 2:00 i lost the adress i tried calling but the woicemail answered or something my mom got mad so she slapped me and yelled at me if i dont find the adress of the place im going to get in big trouble! its in colorado i think the adress is something like 90010 arapahoe St. greenwood village la quinta or something how do i find the exact adress of this place? i dont know if its an agency or inn or what help please any websites

2007-03-11 06:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lets say all u do is play with girls..
ok..and uve never had feelings for some1
and any girl u want u can have
and u meet this girl who u admire so much..
and she does the chasing game for u..coze she knows ur a player..
and she says ur not my type..and there will never be me and you.
....what would u do?
is it just the fact that she said no or a fact that u have 2 have her coze I can have any girl i want 2.

2007-03-11 06:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Every time they go out she comes back with something new, and I dont' agree with it. I spoke to him, but he just keep on doing it. I asked him to spend some of that money on things she really needs, but he doesn't understand my point of view. She's 7 and unfortunately that situation is somehow hurting my relationship with her. What's the smartest thing to do without spoiling her?

2007-03-11 06:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband are in our early 30s, decent looking people. I just don't have any desire to for sex whats so ever. We have lots of time to do it. We have no kids either. I feel really bad. This has been going on for over a year. He is a good looking guy. We used to have alot of fun with sex. Now it feels like chore. I know that the sexual flame fades out over time, but this is rediculous. Sex is like a chore, all I want is to be a sexual female again. He tries hard, and is a very considrate lover, but no matter what he does I can't get turned on!!

2007-03-11 06:22:10 · 16 answers · asked by desi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well last night i was a party with some of my friends, and ona my friends cousins, who i later found out was only 13, i am 16. well last night we were hanging out in my friends room with some other friends, and me n' her we're chillin on his bed. for some reason even though she was right next to me she kept textin me askin me if i find her attractive, and if i think she's the cutest girl there. well i have yet to find out she was 13. i said yes i do for both questions. well last night she fell alseep on me with her head on my chest and kinda holdin my arm, this morning she sent me a message. that says the following:
""did you really mean it last nite wen yu said you liked me?""
how should i respond she is a freaking 7th grader and i am freakin junior. i think that is just wierd. but anyway how should i respond i don't wanna hurt the girls feelings, and i feel like a complete retard since i found out she was that old early early this morning. thanks for any help.
-art

2007-03-11 06:22:00 · 17 answers · asked by wy a 1 in Singles & Dating

About four years ago my dad went to hospital as he was diagnosed with liver failure. Not from abuse but just a natural defect. Anyway. He went a little bit crazy from all the toxins and some things were said that tore my whole family in two. Well more like the whole of my dads family against my mum. and vice versa. For a while i wasnt even allowed to talk to my cousin who i view like he's my brother. We are really close. I have just started talking to my dads family again but i feel like my mum resents me for it. She keeps looking over my shoulder at who i'm talking to what i'm doing etc. And goes ape if i talk about my family anything positive. She denys anything and everything like i'm the dumb bad guy. I'm just wondering is it normal for her to behave like i'm the enemy for respecting my family? I know she's been cast out but she wont say sorry for the things she's done. The other side are quite willing to. But she wont budge is there anything i can do????

2007-03-11 06:21:14 · 6 answers · asked by Genesis1753 1 in Family

Ladies, why is it that men are so rough with our little man? Guys, you must understand that this area is very, very , very sensitive. Direct contact should be made in the most gentle manner. The "man in the boat" should not be bitten, tugged, pulled, snapped, or any other gesture that you feel may not be considered gentle. You CANNOT pull back the foreskin and just GO TO WORK without knowing what you are doing. And if you notice that your girl starts to squirm or cringe while you're doing whatever it is that you're doing to the "little man" then stop doing it. It's not that the "little man" cannot be touched but if you have any doubt about your ability in that area then stay away from it. Ladies, we much teach men how to handle the "little man" so that if they ever move on from their relationship with you, they know what to do. Ladies, do you agree and are you "teaching" them?

2007-03-11 06:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5 in Singles & Dating

My future wife wants to represent both her son and me in her life by hyphenating her last name w/ mine. It doens't feel right to me becasue as a future husband to her, there should be only one man in her life (which is me), and she should represent that be taking my last name. Am I worng for feeling this way? Her son will grow old and seperate from her. Thats why I feel upset. I feel if she is going to have two men in her life I really don't want to be one of them. What should I do and say to her?

2007-03-11 06:20:13 · 8 answers · asked by josiahaaron 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 06:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by sanam 1 in Singles & Dating

This is so difficult for me.We have been married for 18 months and i love her so so muchEvery friday the ex picks up their child and has him weekends...
He is a trouble maker,he tries to speak to my wife on the phone but she will not talk to him,he says he must be able to speak to my wife regards their son.
I tottaly disagree,yes if its a health problem fair enough i totally understand that.
He has just droppd their son off at my wifes workplace where she is working today,when he should have dropped him off at home.......i am an easy going person,but i feel bad and upset about this,,i feel this is wrong.
In the past the police have been involved and i dropped charges,i thought things were quieting down until this happend...how would you feel if this was happening to you?and can i get some sort of injunction?thank you for reading

2007-03-11 06:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i am shopping around for an engagement ring for my beautiful g/f. we have been dating for 4 years and i want to ask her to marry me on her birthday. the only problem is i don't know what carat size to get her is that important. I don't have a lot of money to spend on a ring, but if i had money i would buy her the a big beautiful ring. What is the average carat size? i was thinking about going with a 1/2carat solitare i that too small?? Since i want a colorless diamond and a vs1 or better.
I dont want to get her a tiny diamond that she wont want to show people. I want to get her the most beautiful ring i can get but its not in my price range. SO girls and guys whats ur opinion is a half too small?? i am so lost someone pls help me...........give me some opinions and some average size for a young couple in their 20's. thanks for the advice u give its grately apperciated

2007-03-11 06:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by david 2 in Weddings

I have been in a long term relationship for over 4 years and we have had our ups and downs but I am starting to worry about our compatability. We have different values I am caring and focussed on helping other and he is money orientated and not close to his family. He has taken on my son as well and we all live together so its not always easy. I do love him though but sometimes we just do not understand each other does this have a chance in the long run? We are now relocating to another part of the UK so I guess thats why I am feeling a bit anxious. When we do get on we are fine. I have been battling depression for a while now and do wonder if this contributes to it but he has supported me as best he can but at times its so hard. Serious answers please...thank you.

2007-03-11 06:19:05 · 22 answers · asked by profile not in use 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i rally like this girl like we have been dateing for about a wek or tow now and everytime im ariound her i feel nreally good and i asked her if she wanted to hang out today but if she didnt feel up to it to tell me is that a good thing ??


like i want to hangout but what if she dosent (ps iwant to keep this girl) i took her to the fair yesterday but am i asking to soon to hang out againg like she holds my hand and she kisses me and i dont push her to do it sooo dose it sound like too much to ask her to hangout today

2007-03-11 06:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by tyler h 1 in Singles & Dating

We are a middle aged couple and my wife is very sexual, she has her needs. We agree that she dress sexy and pick up young men that she will never see again. So far, it is working and she is happy that I am letting her get her sex on the side. What's funny is our love has grown stronger and my wife is not frustrated anymore. She actually loves me more now and I love her no less for gettining her sex.

Do other couples in our situation do this?

2007-03-11 06:17:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know I've asked this question before, but I'm trying to get as many answers as possible.
Alright, first off, I am a freshman in highschool. There is a girl in one of my classes and my lunch. She will always say my name when she sees me, and we will talk. She will laugh at my jokes. When we talk we keep good eye contact. When she sees me in the hall she will stop and wait for me to catch up to her and we will talk. We did some thing in class where some people had to pick people for groups, she picked me first.

Anyway do you think this girl likes me? What are some signs I can look for?What are some hints I can drop for her that I like her?

2007-03-11 06:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

Im trapped in a triangle of love!!!!Girl A likes me and wants to be my gf, but i dont completely like her, i like girl B, mainly becuase i only se girl A ebery now and then but i see girl B every day, what do i do!!!!

2007-03-11 06:17:20 · 7 answers · asked by Unibird Spririt 2 in Singles & Dating

My relationship ended about two months ago with someone I wanted to spend there rest of my life with. We ended on good terms, but I'm still having trouble being able to get over her and move on with my life. I could use any advice to help with my situation.

2007-03-11 06:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Casey D 1 in Singles & Dating