Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

My girlfriend and I were at a party on Friday night and she acted very rude and mean to some of the people there (my friends). It was embarassing for me to have my friends look at me like "why are you with such a mean person?" She was unprovoked and was not doing it because she was upset at me or anything else. The next morning I told her how upset I was at how she acted and she agreed that she should not have said those things and felt really bad. I didn't really want to be around her, so she left and we have not talked since. I don't really want to call her since I feel like it was her fault. It has been over a day now, and I am feeling like I should call, should I?

2007-03-11 07:04:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have visited her family a few times and they do not like me because I am Asian. They have shown distaste for our relationship. I know they are quite proud to be white in Scandanavia. Is there anyway I can change her family's mind about me? I have never done anything to be dishonorable towards her family. The only reason her family does not like me is because I am Asian. It frustrates me very much because they make me feel like I am not worthy of my wife and I am starting to feel that way and it makes me depressed. We have a daughter together and I am not sure if her family even likes our daughter.

2007-03-11 07:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by jenzwatt 1 in Family

My bf has received texts & emails from a "good friend" of his that said things like "I love you" & "you're my special someone". I asked him if he told her to stop & he said he dealt with it, but he still continued to get messages from her. I then found out he sent emails and texts to her saying things such as "I think about you everyday" & "I luv/love you" blah blah blah. He said he didn't mean those phrases in "that way" & he just says those to her cuz she has told him she feels lonely/forgotten a lot (she used to live here & had a lot of friends here) & he just wanted to make her feel better.

So yeah. Those messages kinda annoyed me. I told a friend about them & she said that's cheating. I mean, they really hurt me, but they're just texts.......What do you think?

Oh, & if it is considered cheating, should I feel justified in asking him to delete her off of messenger? Or not talking to her at all? I'm not interested in being a b*tch here... but still...?

2007-03-11 07:02:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:02:07 · 20 answers · asked by n1cyndy 3 in Singles & Dating

first, i saw this girl abt last year december.. i didnt notice her.. but she came to me.. later we start to talk and we found out tat we are old pen-pals.. its realli surprising.. since then, everyday i will chat wif her.. then, i find tat she is realli very attractive.. later around february.. i tell her tat i think i have a feeling towards her.. my frens encourage me to tell her tat and said tat she is very nice girl.. and i shud have her.. so i told her.. then, she said yes.. but asked me to wait for her till her vital pmr exam is over then onli she will be serious wif me.. so i tell her ill wait.. we chat and chat.. recently, i saw another old fren of mine.. she is fuking pretty now man.. hawt amazeng gal! we r quite close too.. and then i see the first girl, the one i told her i have a feeling toward her, i find tat i like the prettier one better than my current one (cute,active,cheerful, but not as pretty).. weird.. the more i see the crazier i bcome.. why am i like this?

2007-03-11 07:00:59 · 1 answers · asked by WM 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm staying in england and want to speak for long periods of time with my girlfriend and family over the phone,but at minimal expense.... pls help

2007-03-11 07:00:24 · 10 answers · asked by J-Bone 2 in Friends

2007-03-11 07:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I absolutely love my guy. He means the world to me but I always get the feeling that it's a doomed relationship. He's such a great guy and I feel as if I don't deserve him and he'll realize it and find another girl.

I have expressed my concerns with him and now I feel as if I'm annoying him because he has to keep reassuring his feelings towards me. I don't know how to handle my pessimism because I'm afraid of getting hurt again and it's causing our relationship to suffer a little and the last thing I want is for that to happen.

What would you do to stop thinking so negatively about a relationship? Is it annoying to the significant other if you're vocal about your pessimism about the relationship?

2007-03-11 06:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:58:46 · 2 answers · asked by Marie E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whenever me and my girlfriend are at each others houses. nothing ever happens besides just kissing and holding hands. where do i go to initiate that i want more with out making it akward for me and her.

2007-03-11 06:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1 in Singles & Dating

this grl broke up with this boy, and she says she doesnt like him anymore but everytime the boy comes by me or just passes by me she accuses me of liking him...i dont see how thats bad even thought i dont like him at all. But theyre broken up why does she care shes being paranoid.

2007-03-11 06:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by alwayzn4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

Before I begin, I'm a 16 yr old boy living in India. I really like this girl in my class and we are quite close to each other. But this was not so when I first met her 4-5yrs ago. I used to hate her like anything and she used to hate me too. We really didnt like each other. But over the past few years we have literally become best of friends, I mean we are realy close. And I've developed a liking for her. I have already told her this but recently I found out that she had a liking for this other guy, who turns out to be my best friend. I asked her why she didn't tell me that earlier, and she replied that she didnt want hurt my feelings and I know she meant it. I'm not angry about she not liking me as I believe that every person has his/her own choice. Now the thing is I really cant seem to stop thinking about her, I mean I want to see her smiling atleast once everyday cause it makes me feel very happy (call it maddness or whatever).

2007-03-11 06:58:13 · 5 answers · asked by Black Fantasy 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 06:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by cutepiggy222 1 in Singles & Dating

well abit of a long storie....i split with my ex gf just before christmas and we aint had any contact since then.i still ring and email her mum and dad as we are still on speaking term's.but along with that i speak to my ex gf's work mates and they told me today that she has a new boyfriend and so on and that nearly everyday my ex speak's about me saying this and that,along with that she was not happy cos her mum and dad was still speaking to me so her friends have said..plus they said she dont seem to be happy with her new boyfriend and dont seem to be able to move on with her life.from what it seems to me she is on a rebound trying to get over me.we was together for 2 years and had alot of holidays and stuff together she loves me and i still love her...well i just dont know what the answer to this is cos i dont wanna just run away cos am joining the army in a few weeks so i dont want to leave knowing she still care's for me and stuf.plzzzz sum1 must have some idea's

2007-03-11 06:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

lol :D your thought on this please. he is 23. guys, would you enjoy it? or would you want her to back off lol :D remeber, they just fancy each other yet but non ehave made the first move.

2007-03-11 06:55:37 · 26 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by hemanth.P 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend says he really likes me, but has a girlfriend.. is he playing me? or what? what should i do??

2007-03-11 06:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in California, no asset for me or my wife, no kids, we both would like to divorce as soon as possible.
Thank you

2007-03-11 06:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by calfun9 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here is the deal there is this guy who i like and went out once already in december. Now he has another girl friend but he said he was going to break up with her. So he asked me to have sex with him and i didn't say not but i didn't yes. I have no Idea if he likes me back I have been wanting to ask him if he does but when we are around each other my mind goes blank and I have nothing to say. He flirts with a lot of girls what am I supposted to do have sex with him or not

2007-03-11 06:53:31 · 21 answers · asked by Chelsie (I think Im in love) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:53:15 · 6 answers · asked by luv 2 shop! 1 in Singles & Dating

in a prostitute?

2007-03-11 06:52:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plus if you have any good tips on flirting but it souldnt be obvious, please do share.

2007-03-11 06:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine "jessie" and i like the same guy, "jack". jack has done stuff with her before (like make out and...some other stuff...not sex). i told her that i liked him and all of a sudden she says she likes him again. jessie is the kind of girl who uses guys...more of a tease than anything else and she knows it. they've been "doing stuff" for going on 5 years. one day i was talking to him and another friend "jane" and he was saying that he hates jessie and he was calling her bad names. jane was telling me that lately jack has been saying that he wishes that jessie and i weren't friends. lately i've been finding him staring at me...a lot. jane says that he likes me but she's not sure how much.
advice?

2007-03-11 06:51:08 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

Im kind of in a situation where I need someone's help. See my took my few dollars that I had for the month that I get from the state for caring for her disabled son. Well yeah he's my brother that I care for, but she took his SSI and left to Rosarito, to deal with my little brothers marijuana addiction. So Im screwed, and I just so happend to vent this man that I'v been chatting with and he offered some money to get me by for the month. He said it would be a gift and that nothing was expected of me just to accept the gift. What do you think should I???? I'v never taken money like from anyone, I've always worked but right now my brother and I have a toddler its a little diffucult to work. And I'm not on welfare or get child support, should i take this once, or should i just disappeare from his radar???????

2007-03-11 06:50:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently am made to fill up an audition form asking me what friends say abt my worst qualities. My worst qualities according to them are: 1) impatient 2) quick tempered 3) bad time management 4) stubborn. Its crazy that 5 of them agreed on those. hahaha i shd do a reality check w myself! What are yours? and do u get a shock when told of your worst qualities?

2007-03-11 06:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by Wish 4 in Friends

A woman with ALL these attributes, I mean.

2007-03-11 06:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 06:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by Rick W 3 in Weddings

where do guys like to go on dates with girls???

2007-03-11 06:48:17 · 11 answers · asked by luv 2 shop! 1 in Singles & Dating