Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

an unfeeling automaton? Because that's what i feel like, just an evil robotic machine. I don't know what to do, who to turn to (i'm to young to go get any real profesional help on my own) My brother died about 10 years ago...i never really knew him..when we go to visit his grave, everyone else cries many tears, but i can never shed even one. i try to act like i'm sad, but..
And now it looks like my grandma might die, and i can't even feel sad..
WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?!

2007-03-11 07:18:33 · 23 answers · asked by Neferiel 3 in Family

If not, here is one who fits the bill...(please give it a look over, whenever you think your life is so overwhelming, or the chips are stacked against you, or when you wonder what it is all really about..) You won't be sorry.
http://www.metacafe.com/w/460162/

2007-03-11 07:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by jaypea40 5 in Family

i really like this girl for a couple of monthes. shes really nice, shes shy, and shes beautiful... about 3 months ago, she found out i liked her, and she said she wanted to be just freinds. to my surprise she went out with some guy that was into drugs and drinking (even though she wasn't like that) he cheated on her, and they broke up so i started to like her again, and we were spending more time together and she wasn't that shy anymore. The day before valentine's day, a friend told her about me liking her and she gave me the just friends thing again. i felt so bad, she wanted to know why i liked her, so i gave a friend of hers a full page note, and it was really heartfelt. i put everything i felt about her down on that letter, it said some stuff like "she has the perfect personality a person could ever have" and "besides personality, she is beautiful, but that doesn't matter because the inside is what i love". some other girls read it and the loved it. (more in next details)

2007-03-11 07:17:25 · 12 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:17:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 16 and he is 25. he said that he loves me and i love him. i don't know what to do though. please help.

2007-03-11 07:16:48 · 7 answers · asked by confused_13 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, rewind 2 weeks back, and i was talking to my friend who just got dumped by her boyfriend because her boyfriend was mad becasue he didnt get a hug (yea hes stupid). I like this girl, and she is one of the better looking ones in our school. Now fast foward to present day, and its been about 2 weeks since she got dumped......should i ask her out? I talked to her about the break up, and shes pretty much over him, and she hates him so there is a good possiblility they will not get back together. But, is it just a good time for her? We are both very good friends, and we talk all the time.

So should i ask her out? Or is it too soon?

2007-03-11 07:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been married for almost 2yrs but inlight of the recent events we wont make it to our anniversery. . .4-23. what happens next? i did not get married so i can be alone. . .how could he do this to our family? i know he says he doesnt love me anymore. . .and wants to take some time apart to find out if he will eventually be attracted to me again. . . .but what do i do ? do i wait for him or do i move on and try to forget about him? will there ever be somebody who treats me the way i desreve to be?

2007-03-11 07:15:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 07:15:01 · 18 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

of 2 girls that are on holiday somewhere and they then catch a plane to Thailand to meet a someone. On they way back they are found to have drugs on them and are jailed. The whole thing had been arranged by one of the girls and the man they had met. at the end the innocent girl is released. It is based on a true story and would appreciate the title.

2007-03-11 07:13:15 · 4 answers · asked by rocio s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:12:12 · 21 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Friends

Ok we have been going out 4 almost a full year. But we hardly talk at school. But when we get on the computer and talk we can talk 4 like ever....(this happens like 3 times a month)
Wut dose this mean?

2007-03-11 07:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just broke up with me, is there anyone out there that can give me their email or aim sn, so you can help me get him back with me? or help me get him to want me again? PLEASE?!

2007-03-11 07:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seriously curious about this and want some answers that would help me understand my husband. Why is it that most men (husbands) still want to hang on to their social life so much, to the point that it causes marital problems.
I am a mother or two and he is a father of two but I feel more attached to my children and would feel guilty for going out and staying out til 3am!
Doesn't he miss the children, doesn't he want come home early and not so drunk so he can wake up with the kids?
Are women just more made for parenting, why is that? Then why can men reproduce if they don't feel the need to just let go of their social life, atleast temporarily until the kids are a little older. Why don't they just wait until both husband and wife can go out together. Why does he always ask me if it's ok that he go out, of course I don't say no because then I'm gonna be the wife that said "no."

Some may say because he didn't really want to get married, but he wanted it so badly!

2007-03-11 07:10:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, well, i like this guy, and he knows it. i liked him before, and when i stopped, he sarted liking me, then stopped. now i like him again, and i'm not sure if he likes me. he talks to a lot of girls, bt hes looking at me a lot in gym class, and whenever we pass by each other, but, he hardly talks to me anymore. we used to walk out of school together.. but now he just walks away. we have madeout before and were really close.. then hes getting furhter apart.. but once and a while he will talk to me or joke around with me.. do you think he likes me.. or not? please help, oh, if u have any tips, please let me know.. it sorta like hard for me to think of something to say when i'm round him :]

2007-03-11 07:10:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:10:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in any relationship you have with someone, how can you show them, that you shouldn't be taken for granted

2007-03-11 07:10:02 · 1 answers · asked by Rick james 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

girls(especially feminists) are always talking about how guys are so shallow because they are attracted to good looks and don't accept girls for who they are, but what about girls? first off, guys aren't that picky. we don't need girls to look like supermodels. i can be turned on by girls who are average or good looking. it's true that most guys don't look at ugly girls, but do girls look at ugly guys? however, for me, i'd consider about 20% of girls ugly. the rest are good looking or average. most girls consider about 50% of guys ugly, and only about 20% good looking. and on top of this, most girls will only be sexually attracted to average guys if they are talented or popular. and also, if an ugly girl hits on a guy, he'll probably take it nicely. but if an ugly guy or even an average guy hits on a girl, she usually finds it 'creepy' or 'awkward' and is rude about it. it's really girls who are being pickier than guys. so why do girls act like it's perfectly ok for them?

2007-03-11 07:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

married but separated, she loves me but is obviously sick of me

2007-03-11 07:09:43 · 14 answers · asked by bm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need someone to talk other my present friends.

2007-03-11 07:09:38 · 6 answers · asked by mehul_dan 1 in Friends

that you don't love your kids or would change them for all the world, I just mean the whole having kids thing, if you could choose life again who out there would 'opt out' and why? Thanks for your answers.

2007-03-11 07:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this cute guy & we flirt a lot ,but he hasn't asked me out yet !!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! :0(

2007-03-11 07:08:27 · 14 answers · asked by Dracula/Alucard 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently broke up with my first love. i was his first love too and we were both heart broken. his first reaction was that he wasnt gonna let me go and kept trying to get back together. i loved him and it was hard on both of us. i finally told him that we r never getting back together and that i need him to stop coming over. at first he took it well. i knew he was hurt but he was ok. he said i was right and that all the fighting we did was unhealthy (the reason we broke up was because we fought too much over dumb things). well today he came over and cried and begged but i still told him no that it wasnt gonna work. well he found a pic. of me and a guy friend (i had my head on his shoulder but we really r just friends) and assumed that i had "moved on". he then said he couldnt live without me and has started talking about suicide. i hope that he is just saying things but i just dont know and im really scared. even though things didnt work out i do care about him. what should i do?

2007-03-11 07:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by JUSTME 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend but whenever he does not text back or call i lose control and i start doing things i will regret in the end and i will always feel like giving up on the relationship and when i want to do so i realise how much i love him and how much he loves me.i know love is not all about texting.wat should i do to save my relationship?

2007-03-11 07:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by boomerang 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends w/ this boy for a really long time and we're going to prom w/ him. I like him and i dont know how to tell him. Prom is in 1 month. I dont want to feel weird around him at prom.

(i'm 18)

2007-03-11 07:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by jengurl89 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:07:13 · 19 answers · asked by suraj j 1 in Weddings

i have an e spin the bottle profile, but my parents don't let me have one. It's been a little wierd talking to people online whom i dont know, and feels a little unsafe. i worked so hard on creating my profile.......................
whould deleting it be the right thing to do?

2007-03-11 07:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by star2bee1028 2 in Family

In order for me to feel orgasmic pleasure, I have to be played with by the clitorus. And its driving me and my partner nuts that we cant have an orgasm together, its driven me nuts years before all this, but now its gotten me feeling insecure. Please help me figure out what i can do to have an orgasm during sex. We have already done everything in the book as far as foreplay. I just dont have the sensation your suppose to feel while making love.

2007-03-11 07:06:39 · 4 answers · asked by grumpyme2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?

2007-03-11 07:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 07:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by maccee 1 in Singles & Dating

...My point is this...do you mind if your boyfriend is 3 years younger or 10 years older...or vice- versa for man is this an obstacle?

2007-03-11 07:04:48 · 4 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Other - Family & Relationships