i love my boyfriend but whenever he does not text back or call i lose control and i start doing things i will regret in the end and i will always feel like giving up on the relationship and when i want to do so i realise how much i love him and how much he loves me.i know love is not all about texting.wat should i do to save my relationship?
2007-03-11 07:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by boomerang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love doesn't hate... you just sound out of control, possessive, and overprotective. Maybe you should figure out yourself before you include another person... why are you so jealous and possessive? Figure out the answer to that and your relationships might go better... but a lot of boyfriends/girlfriends bring that out in a person, maybe you should step back and ask yourself if your boyfriend is worth it.
2007-03-11 07:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say there is a thin line between love and hate, but I say "it ain't so." You sound a little, or a lot, obsessive about this texting business. Why are you so insecure? Men don't chat on the phone and text like little mad monkeys the way girls do. They just don't. It's a scientific fact; men don't even "have" as many words to expend in a day as women have. Don't his actions speak loudly when you see him in person? What are you doing all day with your time? Do something fun and interesting to share with him later when you meet. Build some confidence in yourself and some trust in your boyfriend. He isn't a child you have to look after; he , I assume, already has a mother. Be his friend, and treat him with respect before you become a nuisance. Leave you phone at home a few days to wean yourself off this tendency to text. When you do see him things should only be better,and you both will have interesting things to share and talk about. Just put yourself in his shoes and you should be able to figure this out pretty quickly. It isn't becoming to you; you're bigger than this, right?
2007-03-11 07:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your b/f you wouldn't be doing regretable things when he doesn't call or text... .. i think you need to just take some time and just look at what you really want.. a loving relationship or ... just be single for a while...
2007-03-11 07:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Corie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were you I wouldnt be so overprotective. He has a life and school and such.
Also, if he misses some texts or calls it doesnt mean he hates you. I mean if I called my mom and her message machine picked up, I wouldnt be sobbing for an hour and telling the world she hates me. Just relax a bit.
2007-03-11 07:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the reason he is not getting back to you. Maybe it's something silly. Then you just have to work on controlling your own reaction to the situation.
2007-03-11 07:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by leelee53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is love in junior high.
When you grow up and calm down, things will get better.
Go do your homework.
2007-03-11 07:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
create him a reflex to call you
first everytime he calls you do something nice or make him a present
then put him to listen to subliminal texts
call me, call me , call me
i don't know what to say to you, some people just don't call,
i know it's annoying, find someone who does call you
2007-03-11 07:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋