Ok, rewind 2 weeks back, and i was talking to my friend who just got dumped by her boyfriend because her boyfriend was mad becasue he didnt get a hug (yea hes stupid). I like this girl, and she is one of the better looking ones in our school. Now fast foward to present day, and its been about 2 weeks since she got dumped......should i ask her out? I talked to her about the break up, and shes pretty much over him, and she hates him so there is a good possiblility they will not get back together. But, is it just a good time for her? We are both very good friends, and we talk all the time.
So should i ask her out? Or is it too soon?
2007-03-11 07:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Their relationship lasted for about three months, with one break-up-and-then-get-back-together-a-week-later kinda thing
2007-03-11 07:23:23 · update #1
hell yeah, if you ever have a chance for something like that in your life, take it without thinking of possible consequences, and trust me, if you relax through life thinks will have a way of working themselves out in a great way. the more chances you take the better you'll feel about it. and if its not the right time for her then dont worry, life goes on.
also, youll have better chances if you work on just a friendship first, et her get to know you, if she already does then if you play your cards right, your in the clear. ive never been dumped but i would say in 2 weeks i would definetly be ready.
2007-03-11 07:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite the fact that u dont tell as how serious has her ex-reliationship and how long it lasted i think there is np in asking her now cause usually relationships at school age arent too serious! well if u r not too much in hurry u can wait a bit one week more or two
2007-03-11 07:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her more time, like a few more days than say , wanna see a movie in a casual way. It should be more hanging out.
2007-03-11 07:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by The Curse of Curves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should tell her how u feel and then ask her if shes ready for a new relationship and if she like u then all is well and maybe shes not ready u cant wait a bit and see how it goes good luck
2007-03-11 07:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out. but take it slow...one step at the time so you wont scare her away. Tell her how you feel first then when you feel like she's looking at you like "aww really thats so sweet, I feel the same" kinda look then thats the best time you should ask her.
2007-03-11 07:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really just needs a friend right now so be there and if she is not showing hints that she like u back off a little but if she is its ok to flirt back uk
2007-03-11 07:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go on a few dates first so she can ease into your plans of wooing her. It won't be a bit of a shocker if you date first and then pop the question.
2007-03-11 07:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by theMadHat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ask her out to the movies.
2007-03-11 07:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm i would say go for it. Just tell her how you feel(girls like to share feelings),
2007-03-11 07:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it,for God's sake
and keep your (and her's) distance
just enjoy
gws (male)
2007-03-11 07:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by Gerhard S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋