Ok we have been going out 4 almost a full year. But we hardly talk at school. But when we get on the computer and talk we can talk 4 like ever....(this happens like 3 times a month)
Wut dose this mean?
2007-03-11 07:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first off I am not dumping him. he is a really nice person!!! and I do Know a lot about him!!!! but we are just shy....REALY SHY
2007-03-11 07:22:26 · update #1
You talk like you are still both very young...under 18. There is nothing wrong with what you two are doing...it is great to get to talk and enjoy each other company. If you like it and he likes it and you both are sparing each other the gossip and the drama at school, that is wonderful.
What it means??? It means that you and him found someone that you can click with and have a great time...after school is over if it develops, then that is great; if it continues that is great as well...who said you should have a sexual and full blown relationship otherwise its no good. If he did not like you he would not get online and chat his heart out with you??? true??? Then that's your answer.... Be well and good luck sweetie
2007-03-19 03:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are shy mostly because they fear rejection. You are comfortable online because you can hide behind your computers. Life is about risk and taking chances for the better. If I were you I would face my fear and interact in person more than online. It doesn't have to be on such familiar territory as school where all of your friends are. Maybe meet up somewhere else like the mall and people watch or go to a park or out for coffee. It's hard enough to get to know someone in person when you're shy but it's even tougher when you try to do it where friends (though well intentioned) can tease or offer their opinions.
2007-03-19 06:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by kwazeeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a boyfriend, stop fooling yourself. When a guy won't talk to you at school he's either embarrassed of knowing you or doesn't want anyone to know he's not available. Get your head out of the sand. Nice guy? Stop being a pathetic doormat.
2007-03-18 12:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are having an internet relationship, not a real one.
If you two got married, it sounds like you would whip out cellphones or laptops to talk to each other even if your right next to each other.
Use your voices that God gave you or dump him.
2007-03-11 07:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're in one of those young relationships where you're just learning what you're supposed to be doing with the other person... and one of the big things to learn is how to talk to each other. You need to figure out how to start talking to each other more, b/c that's the basis of relationships... how are you going to get to know him if you don't talk to each other?
2007-03-11 07:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have typed him this question before! Why will you only type to me and not in school? Very simple straight forward question...He will probably answer you on the computer before he knows what to say if you ask him in person.
2007-03-19 06:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him at school!!! Sit beside him at lunch, try starting a converstaion like you would on the computer
2007-03-11 07:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by mebh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try makin the first move.. by in school sit with him.. and try to strike up a convo... maybe just maybe the relationship will go as great in skooll.. you never know...
2007-03-11 07:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Corie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean that you may be great friends but not gf/bf....but that is not a bad thing.....because sometimes it is better to have a great friend than a bf.....plus you will find someone special to be your b/f
2007-03-11 07:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall are growing apart
2007-03-11 07:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋