Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

I asked a question yesterday because i am torn between my fiancee and my ex and i was supposed to talk to my ex today about my feelings, well we were supposed to go to the spring training game to day and he pretty much begged me to go well now he wont answer his phone??? i tried calling him several times today but he wont answer his phone i dunno why he is playing games. Please help me, yesterday he was telling me how much he loved me and he wanted things to work out and now he wont answer his phone so that we can have "our day together" please people help me because i am tired of the games and the stress of this all i just need some advice on what to do because i know he will be calling me later maybe with some lame excuse

2007-03-10 07:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend from university got engaged at Christmas. My fiance and I got engaged in Oct 05. We have booked our wedding for 26th July 2008.
My friend said tht they were getting married in Aug 2009. However, all of a sudden she has told me that she is now getting married in summer next year - like me! We are both teachers and therefore have to get married during the summer hols. She said she had found a reception for the weekend after mine and aks me when me and my fiance would be on our honeymoon? Of course I answered yes we would, as he has already booked time off work. They cheeckliy enough she then asks if I could delay it for 2 weeks so I could go to her wedding!!! What 'friend' tries to book their wedding straight after your own then expects you to delay your honeymoon.
The funniest thing was that I said why dont you have your on the 16th Aug, we would be back from our honeymoon then. She then replied cheekily "Yeah but that doesnt leave much time for a honeymoon!" What u think?

2007-03-10 07:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 in Friends

What can I say while texting this girl that could be considered flirting? It's just that I find it easier to flirt in person!

2007-03-10 07:43:48 · 7 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Singles & Dating

Me ex broke up with me and I am pregnant. He moved 20 hours away. He knew I was pregnant when he left. We are young, 22 & 23. Been together for awhile, lived together. Engaged before baby. He thought I was dating someone else and flipped out, I told him I wasn't. Now he tells me that he started "talking" to another girl...already..haven't even been broken up a month. I am busy with getting my babys room ready but I still want him to come to his senses. He moved with his father who deserted him when he was a child. Has this ever happened to someone before? I am trying to move on but its hard when I have a part of him growing inside of me. I really do love him and would never get back with him just because of the baby. He said that towards the end we fought too much, well, I'm pregnant.

2007-03-10 07:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me ex broke up with me and I am pregnant. He moved 20 hours away. He knew I was pregnant when he left. We are young, 22 & 23. Been together for awhile, lived together. Engaged before baby. He thought I was dating someone else and flipped out, I told him I wasn't. Now he tells me that he started "talking" to another girl...already..haven't even been broken up a month. I am busy with getting my babys room ready but I still want him to come to his senses. He moved with his father who deserted him when he was a child. Has this ever happened to someone before? I am trying to move on but its hard when I have a part of him growing inside of me. I really do love him and would never get back with him just because of the baby. He said that towards the end we fought too much, well, I'm pregnant.

2007-03-10 07:43:21 · 9 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me ex broke up with me and I am pregnant. He moved 20 hours away. He knew I was pregnant when he left. We are young, 22 & 23. Been together for awhile, lived together. Engaged before baby. He thought I was dating someone else and flipped out, I told him I wasn't. Now he tells me that he started "talking" to another girl...already..haven't even been broken up a month. I am busy with getting my babys room ready but I still want him to come to his senses. He moved with his father who deserted him when he was a child. Has this ever happened to someone before? I am trying to move on but its hard when I have a part of him growing inside of me. I really do love him and would never get back with him just because of the baby. He said that towards the end we fought too much, well, I'm pregnant.

2007-03-10 07:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Singles & Dating

i know i do

2007-03-10 07:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother is/was an abusive, two faced person with immense love and immense abusive issues. She beat us up, called us every obscenity in the world and yet would defend us to the end when we were in trouble and would often cry for forgiveness. She put us before her in all things, but was physically and verbally too much. I moved across the US to get away and start my life. I swore to learn to be not like her. But I find many of my habits like hers (short-tempered, mood swings, depression, and lack of financial education) My mother was always depending on men to pay her bills. She did not know how to manage her money. I feel like I am becoming her. My bf is so good to me and I do not want to become insane like her. What can I do to work out those traits she has influenced me with? I am a lot more happy and confident since I ran away at 19, but I still feel her habits have rubbed off on me. I know nothing about money management and common sense stuff. What can I do to truly start fresh?

2007-03-10 07:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by vada 4 in Family

2007-03-10 07:40:48 · 22 answers · asked by The best I can do 1 in Singles & Dating

my bloke did the dirty on me the back end of last year and i have made his life hell. tonight is the first time he has been out with his mates and im on edge wondering should i phone and check on him r drive to where he is help b4 i go crazy. i wana let this go but im finding it realy hard plus im really stubborn

2007-03-10 07:38:52 · 10 answers · asked by showmethemoneygolddigger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 07:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by cutepiggy222 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 07:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 07:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by Billiam 1 in Family

my bf is too talkative...wat to do? wat to say? sometimes is embarrasing for the way he talks...........like he tries to be funny even when he's not at all!

2007-03-10 07:37:10 · 2 answers · asked by moreira0110 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 07:37:10 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

without getting into details
...so just when I opologized that I hurt his feelings
things got even worst
..and bc his been so much in his life.
I dont want 2 give him a hard time on me.

his just came back in uni and I think If I stop talking 2 him.
it would be a great idea for him to focus on what he wants.
because I know..that things will get worst if I stay like this.

but his said some things..things I will never forget.
and I want 2 send him a message..instead saying it directly 2 him.
but I just want to know.
If I do this..would things get even worst?

2007-03-10 07:36:51 · 2 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Wat do people say about a white guy and a black girl...im a guy and my dad was born in india n moved to pakistan..my mums english..but i just dont know white girls just seem like everyone else and iv never found a white girl iv loved..but i met a few black pakistani girls and i seemed to find em attractive.and im in love with 1.is it normal.is it normal to love girls with short hair and girls with only 1 body shape i like and height and color.why i always fall in lov girls who have the features.is it normal

2007-03-10 07:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by nasserprofessional 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She wanted to know if her soon to be husband wore a tail on his tux, should his groomsmen too? Or would that be taking the attention from him? Or should he and his best man wear a tail? Please give me your suggestions.

2007-03-10 07:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

... we have decided to put it to the vote here on YA !
so what ever you people say then thats what we think should be fair ! he says he should be in at a certain time & I say he should be in at a certain time ! and obviously there not the same... most of the time we know where he is but not all the time ! ... anyway would be nice to get your answers to resolve both my and my sons dilema ?

thanks

2007-03-10 07:35:07 · 59 answers · asked by Neo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy who loves me a lot and hes really sweet and he asked me to be his girlfreind and i didnt want to say no because we are really rreally good freinds i just never liked him that way and i really need help figuring out how to make him break up with me...beacuse i dont want to seem mean by breaking up with him..AGHH help!!!!!!!

2007-03-10 07:34:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sara! G 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 07:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by feller 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like move to a completely isolated spot. Be a hermit if I want. Be selfish about my love life if I want.

2007-03-10 07:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when I ask a question here it is not so much what the person says as much as it is that they took the time to read what I wrote. I am very cranky this morning and I was in tears when I finally got responses to my questions earlier. I was so happy to know that people out there have heard me. Thanks to all you readers of questions and givers of advice.

2007-03-10 07:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by BLANK 4 in Singles & Dating

I need to know.

2007-03-10 07:33:11 · 2 answers · asked by cursed_brandon 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you show that you really love your girl or boy? do you look deeply into her eyes, do you hold her hand when you are out and about? what are the things you do that makes your partner feel special?
please lemme know!

2007-03-10 07:33:03 · 4 answers · asked by Bla Bla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i gt dumpd n i relly like dat guy bt i guess it wasnt ment 2 be n derz diz guy at ma sku who i relly like but i dnt know wat 2 do plez help

2007-03-10 07:32:59 · 1 answers · asked by *L!$+3n 2 Ur h3@r+ n0+ uR bR@!n 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 07:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you regularly sleep with someone and it not be a 'relationship' but just be friends? Is it just a head f**k?

2007-03-10 07:32:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We tried once and i think it really hurt for her. she scrunched up her face and so i stopped and she said to keep going and that she would just cover her face with a pillow so i didnt see her pain! why is it hurting her? is there anyway we can make it not hurt? she says she wants to do this but could she be lying? why would someone want to have something painful happen to them? i love her very much and dont think i can hurt her on purpose, it doesnt seem like its worth it even for sex... what should i do?

2007-03-10 07:31:59 · 13 answers · asked by wq e 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with my bf for a year already and wats gets me suprise is that he says that he loves me and he wants to get married and obviously move out? do u think he's over reacting or is IT LOVE?

2007-03-10 07:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by moreira0110 2 in Singles & Dating