Me ex broke up with me and I am pregnant. He moved 20 hours away. He knew I was pregnant when he left. We are young, 22 & 23. Been together for awhile, lived together. Engaged before baby. He thought I was dating someone else and flipped out, I told him I wasn't. Now he tells me that he started "talking" to another girl...already..haven't even been broken up a month. I am busy with getting my babys room ready but I still want him to come to his senses. He moved with his father who deserted him when he was a child. Has this ever happened to someone before? I am trying to move on but its hard when I have a part of him growing inside of me. I really do love him and would never get back with him just because of the baby. He said that towards the end we fought too much, well, I'm pregnant.
2007-03-10 07:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would he accuse you of dating someone else unless..... hmmm..... he's already talking with another girl? That sounds really cheesy to me and brings me feelings of de ja vu, I have to admit. I was not pregnant when the guy I was dating broke up with me for similar reasons. That was almost two years ago and my thoughts are soooo much clearer now. For whatever reason, he was never quite happy in the relationship. I was loyal to him for the 4.5 years we were "together" and he constantly badgered me and accused me of cheating. I never even gave him reason to suspect that, although he gave me continuous reasons throughout the duration of our relationship to wonder about his faithfulness. I was not bringing distrust into the relationship, but it was there anyway thanks to him, and, as it turned out, after we were apart awhile and I had time to think clearly and reason things out, I realized it was he who was cheating all along and looking for justification for his behavior. Just something for you to think about.
2007-03-10 08:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was enjoying all the privaliges of being a husband without the responibility. The fact that he cut and run away when you needed him most let's you know he would not have been a good husband anyway.That part is now in the past so move on with pride and respect for yourself.
In the future remember to not give away your love to too quickly to someone without a commitment.,you deserve much better.
2007-03-10 08:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cinna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes but im still waiting for the outcome but trying to move on..good luck
2007-03-10 07:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it has happened to me and at least i charged him for child support.
2007-03-10 08:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by purple121593 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋