2007-03-10 07:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Angel, the answer to both of your questions is NO NO NO NO. He obviously is trying to play on his emotions so he's got an easy life with money, company, and eventually he'll use you for everything. Stay away darlin, as hard as it may seem put yourself first and tell this loser to do one. x
2007-03-10 07:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your sending the wrong message. A guy doesn't live together with a girl because he can't afford to even live alone. Well, they do, but those are the losers! I bet you would have never dreamed that your relationship would start this way. No marry me cause I love you and I will take care of you from now on. Just, hey babe, I can't afford to live on my own, maybe we could shack up so I get free nookie while you work to pay the bills. I'll sit at the apartment and play video games!
2007-03-10 08:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even if my other option was to live in a chicken coop. I would really have no time for anyone who was an ex. It meant that things were not good before when they should have been great. Why would it be different now? And he is USING you. Tell him to budget on his own money and to learn to make do. Stay clear of what you sense is a bad idea. You would not be asking in the questions here if you thought it was a good idea. You would have already done it. Go with your gut instinct. Keep clear of him.
2007-03-10 07:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would really depend on the reason for the breakup, and if the person had treated me fairly in the marriage, if u and he are still friends than yes it might work out for the both of u, but if it was an ugly breakup and there was betrayal involved i would not be open to doing him any favors.
2007-03-10 08:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be with a man that can not take care of himself, and furthermore as a woman to take care of him?
Let him crash on his male friends sofa until he gets a new job. Did he have any interest in living with you when his finances were going well?
2007-03-10 07:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by justthetwoofus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy his company?
Do you still love him?
Is there still something there?
Is this a maneuver on his part to get back with you?
Can you find time to talk to just him about the situation at hand?
The Real Question your asking should be ,Do I want this man back in my life?
What do you want?
Good Luck to you, and be happy.
2007-03-10 07:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the worst idea in the entire world. Your ex? No way!!
2007-03-10 07:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still have a good friendship, then yes. Be sure if you dont want to get back with him that he is aware that it is purely a financial arrangement.
If you dont get along with him tho, dont bother. He'll have to get a job and provide for himself.
2007-03-10 07:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good Lord how old is he !??? He's your ex and not your responsibility ! Tell him to go back to mum's !
2007-03-10 22:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Isis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not a good idea.
2007-03-10 07:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋