Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

Not necessarily a bad one. For example, one of my cats broke something of value to my boyfriend years ago. I crazy glued it together and didn't mention it because I knew he would be upset. I told him years later and he was ok with it.

2007-03-08 05:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by SweetPea 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the process of buying a new car i'm finally at the place where i can afford payments on a good reliable car. I am supposed to get it on March 16...my boyfriend has already asked to use it on the 20th, I said i'll think about it but if I do you can't have your friends in it so he in turns says you're such a baby and so selfish. He's also mad because i bought a portable dvd player and he's always using it and i found it on the floor the other day and i told him he needs to buy himself one, but he said his unemployement check isn't enough. I wouldn't be so overprotective of my stuff but when he came to live with me i had just bought two pairs of timberlands for myself and bought him a nice pair of shoes and he asked to borrow my boots and ruined a pair and unbeknownest to me he used my other pair and ruined them, and he said he'll buy new ones but that was last year and he's still unemployed and can't afford them, am i wrong for wanting to protect my stuff..am i selfish?

2007-03-08 05:54:46 · 39 answers · asked by Shai L 2 in Singles & Dating

I ´m going throught a long distance relatioship and have been reading a lot about it in the web. I would like to know which could be the best way of communicating? I found some interesting articles about new technologies here: loveandculture.net.
What do you think? Is it better for you to use telephone, chat, letters, camera, skype? I need advice.

2007-03-08 05:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by Sol Karma 2 in Singles & Dating

OK i went out with this girl for a month 3 months ago and when we split we stayed close friends. But then my other best m8 who at the time had a girlfriend began to get closer to her and she started to havce feelings for him. So he split with his GF a week ago and has just asked her out and she said yes!!! ANd i have never been so angry in my life! i have to see them every day at school and it really really pains me to se my 2 best mates betray me like this....my parents say i should drop this...but how can i? I still have feelings for her, and i feel like my best mates have stabbed me in the back!! I keep having arguements with her about this, saying that its not fair to me and stuff..and for some reason i just CANT let her go, i think about her all the time, wever been over for 4 months...i just dont no what more i can do!!

2007-03-08 05:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have no idea how to react to this anymore. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We are totally in love and will probably get married.
Recently she has been stressing over the fact that she is not the only person I’ve been with sexually . At first I just thought to myself that every female must go through this in the first stages of a relationship. But it has got worse, its like the only thing she thinks about. she has openly admitted that its wrong for her to think this way and that she shouldn’t punish me for my past before we even knew each other.
I’ve talked to her about it plenty of times. I want her to seek help. I feel that my past has nothing to do with us and she keeps bringing up a part of my life I want to forget.
I don’t know what to do anymore its starting to make me feel angry. I don’t want our relationship to end over something like this. This has been going on few the past 2 months.
Does anyone have any advice on what I can do?
Thanks

2007-03-08 05:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend was suppose to come to my house one saturday night and pick me up so we could go skating together. Well in order to get to my house there are s curves. Now she knew it was going to be dark when she came to get me and yet she waited till past 7 to say she was scared to drive to my house up those s curves in her truck, especially since it was dark. At first I wasn't mad but then I became furious when I tried to tell her the other way to get to my house and she wasn't listening. I was so pissed off. Right now it has been 5 days since I've talked to her. Am I overreacting a bit or does she deserve not to be spoken to since she said she was going to come and pick me up and didn't. I already told my boyfriend, her boyfriend, and my friend that I wasn't speaking to her so I don't plan on talking to her, even though my buddy said I should. What's your opinion America????????????

2007-03-08 05:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by vanessa k 2 in Singles & Dating

I had plans and I couldn't meet him yesterday, anyway he drop me an e-mail say this.....
"Today was different in some ways......the urge to kiss you was not overpowering !....but the urge to see u was :) .....hope u have a good day." My question is does this guy have feelings for me?

2007-03-08 05:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Friends

Ok guys. Let's say you had a gf who had been living with you for a year. She gets really sick and goes on disability and can't work for 2 months. You have known that she has been struggling with money for the past few months, and this definitely doesn't help. You have a very good paying job, and pay most of the bills, anyways. Would you foot the bill for her for a while (btw, she cleans, cooks, and does laundry!) with some sporatic payments from her? I mean, if you really cared, and you knew she hated taking your money, wouldn't that be ok until she got back on her feet? How would you feel if you were in this situation? Obviously I am talking about myself. My boyfriend is getting po'd at me and calls me lazy, but I am legitimately sick and disabled. He bugs me for money every other minute, and sees that my beloved car just got repo'd. Does he care enough about me, or should I believe him when he says he's broke (he just bought a 61" TV and has a great paying job). Thanks!

2007-03-08 05:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 in Singles & Dating

I was on a business trip to CA a little over a year ago. I went out partying, had too much to drink, and lost my wallet. Needed money to get back home. I went to this fertility clinic and made a "donation" to get some quick cash. As I was leaving I saw this beautiful blond being escorted into the building by a big tough body guard type of guy. At the time I didn't think anything of it except that I thought she looked like Marilyn Monroe. Now, when I see DannyLynne on TV, I always think "she looks like my baby pictures".

So, I'm wondering should I get a lawyer and maybe get a blood test, to find out for sure??? I mean if this is really my child then I have a responsibility as her sole surviving parent to look out for her best interest.

What should I do????

2007-03-08 05:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by augen blich 2 in Family

What do you do in that case? You don't have his email, phone, and don't live near him. How do you...well, how would a 14 yr old ask out a 15 yr old who's recovering from heartbreak?

2007-03-08 05:51:31 · 7 answers · asked by Bkat 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been very shy and introverted all my life. People walk all over me and I get bullied a lot (I mean verbally, no one's hitting me). I have no confidence in myself and I have never felt like I've done a really good job at anything. I am convinced that other people are better. I think that other people can sense these things and become encouraged to attack me feeling I can't defend myself. Work is hell because of the condescending and bullying way the others treat me. I do everything anyone tells me to, needing to redeem myself for being so bad at everything. But even with my doing everything anyone asks, they act like I am a slug. When I meet brand new people I am treated nicely, and then once they get to know me the condescending always starts up again. No matter where I am or with who or what job I'm at. This is making me so depressed. Any help? Serious replies only please.

2007-03-08 05:51:13 · 2 answers · asked by charmedchiclet 5 in Friends

My 26 year old and 7 year old granddaughter live with my daughters boyfriend. He has a fit if the house is not spotless but does nothing to help. MY daughter has little money and and he is always berating her about it. He will not let them eat HIS food but will eat theirs. My daughter says her always has to know where she is and I seldom her from her. They lived with us before they moved in with the boyfriend and I babysat often when my daughter worked. I worry that the boyfriend mentally and verbally abuses my daughter and maybe granddaughter. My daughter is always worried he will find out about things. My granddaughter is always told to be quite and not to jump around. She is sent to her room all the time and never plays out side, she use to love to do that, she is expect to fold all the laundry and if it is not done right it is thrown around the room and do again, if she gets a drop of urine on the toilet seat she is punished, what should I do ?

2007-03-08 05:51:06 · 21 answers · asked by SAL 2 in Friends

2007-03-08 05:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by Martini 1 in Singles & Dating

how important can be for you that woman you like wears make up? Is ist important at all, do you even notice that kind of things? do u like women who wear make up at all ?

2007-03-08 05:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by persian_ladyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i found out that my bf is car sharing with this girl
called sally from work i dint like her coz she use to text him be 4 like sayin me and my ex r fighting etc? so he said that y he dint tel me he was car sharin as i went throught he mob and found out he was car sahring i. said y her out of every 1 he like she only 1 from this way and we go half on the car park ticket notihng in it she is is enganed should i worry i said im not happy with it but ok its kol then i dirve bi 2nite at 6.15 and he kar not there som im finkin ok he would of drop her off at 5.20 and b bk bi now were is he what he up 2 so i kal him he dont pik up next thing i new mob switch oiff he then calls back at 7 goin u k i saids were u been he goes went to pub with mate kay i said oh ok yer rite and we had argument what do u fink ?

2007-03-08 05:48:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married. I got married at 17 yrs old. My marriage is strong but, we aruge offten. He claims that I am mean. I really dont see this. I have had a really bad childhood, he knows about, but I think this is to blame. I have no close friends. He is my only best friend. He says nobody wants to be around me. I really dont see this, what are some things people would do for you not to want to be friends with them?? I need friends. or do I?

2007-03-08 05:48:45 · 23 answers · asked by ~*Raven*~ 1 in Friends

My friends from my hometown are paying me a visit today and staying for two days. I have a roommate, and I'm concerned that they are not going to respect my wishes of them being quiet tonight because my roommate has to get up early on Friday for work, how can I poliety stress this to them? (After drinking a little they get real loud.)

2007-03-08 05:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is always doing so much for me and others and i am so worried about me ,myself and i that i neva really thought about how much he does and nobody really appericates him and i feel like crap because like i do tell him i love him and thank u for everything but i wanna do something for him to make him see im am grateful for him and i am happy he is my father , what can i do ?

2007-03-08 05:47:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who else hates the fact that you can't do any real juicy questions or juicy replies without violating Yahoo's code?

2007-03-08 05:47:02 · 14 answers · asked by hot_john_dog1 2 in Singles & Dating

everytime i go to chruch there is this girl stareing at me she did say i was cute. and everytime when its time to shake everyone hands she stareing at me i was like 3 feet of her and i was stareing to and i go back to sit she stareing right into my eyes she looks back and stareing we stare in are eyes like 40 secs. ayeways i am 17 she is 16.

2007-03-08 05:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i see him every day in school he does anything i tell him to but when he ask to go out wit me i dnt kno how to say no so i just keep on lying wat should i do?

2007-03-08 05:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my wedding I got a watch as my wedding gift from my brother (and his wife). A watch worth $100.
My brother recently asked me whether I liked his gift and said he had given nearly $10000 to buy me a wedding present. I said thank you and closed the matter. i know his wife cheated on him by pocketing his money. Did I do the right thing by not telling my brother that his wife has cheated him?

2007-03-08 05:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Family

k so my friend wants to call me something else other then my real name....my name is joanna and people call me jo but he doesnt wanna go with the crowd so he said what about "JJ" (my last name starts with a J) and i dont know if i really like that so if u have any ideas that will fit in with my real name that would be good

2007-03-08 05:44:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do i tell him or just wait for her to call him? i know they still go at it every now and then...so this was strickly physical.

2007-03-08 05:44:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have small breasts.I am very much concious about it.I am even afraid to start a relationship.Does this matter in a married life?In a relationship between man and woman?I am in a kind of inferiority complex.Help me!

2007-03-08 05:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by momy 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, and recently one of my relatives told me that he liked my friend. Well, 3 of my friends (one of them is his sister, and one of them is really usually truthful) told me that he likes me as a girlfriend. I started to believe them, but then I was torn down really hard. I told his sister that I wasn't mad at her I just wish I would have known the truth sooner, and now she won't quit sayin that he really wants to date me. I am always so happy around him. He is sort of shy and when I sit near him I cant help but notice that he is lookin at me.

The problem is, I don't know who I should believe. Should I believe my friends or my relative? I wanna believe my friends, but I am afaid to believe them. What should I do and who should I believe? Is there a chance that he likes me?

2007-03-08 05:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 05:43:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for some ideas that I may incorporate into my reception. At the wedding, we're releasing butterflies, but I want a bunch of other small things like that to make it that much more special. Any ideas?

2007-03-08 05:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by guyizzgay 1 in Weddings

i been dateing my bf for 3 years now and were planning on getting married in a couple years. ..but my mom HATES his mom but she only meant her once ..she's just going by what my bf's stepmom has told her about her ..so my mom thinks she's a bad person which isnt true ..I just wish she would take time to actually know her instead of judgein her when she doesnt know her..i dont know what to do

2007-03-08 05:42:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 05:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating