Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I agree with you all..love at first sight is mainly lsut..onyl after you get to know a person you really fall in love with them. I have been in arrangd marriage for 3 yrs and half noww, and i met my wife once for1 15 min then 3 days later said eys to marry her. Today i am not sure if i love her, the lvoe you see in everyday couple who went to love marriage...there are no sparsk...i dunno why i cant feel that love that she feel for me and i dont know what to do..if it is lost case and if we should divorce becuz of incompatibilities or no love? i was told falling in love will happen eventually after marriage...but it didnt happen...on my side..and on top i was told i have sexual behavior (obsessive compulsive disorder), but even without this i do feel this absence of feelings....someone can tell me something?

2007-03-08 06:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by aminf31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After over 7 years my husband has admitted to being gay (after I caught him). I'm sooooo glad I decided to wait before having kids, so it was just the 2 of us. I love him dearly, but the lack of sex and passion has sucked and I'm excited to start over. He is already with 2 other people and has moved out. We aren't divorced yet, but as soon as he finds a job and gets 250 bucks, it's as good as done. I would like be friends with him but I am still very angry at this point and afraid that he could manipulate my feelings into taking him back. Has anyone else had this experience? Are you still friends? How long did you wait before talking?

2007-03-08 06:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend & I have been together for about 3 years (rocky years) He has his own condo, I'm 24, I still live home as I'm a student & can't afford to go it alone yet. We fight alot already, have broken up a few times for a few days at a time. For some reason, we just CAN'T let each other go. Even when we are making each other miserable being broken up feels far worse. Anyways, my mother is sick of my drama, so she suggested that I just move in with him, she thinks then I'd finally see how bad it would be & I would dump him for good. Anyone out there move in with their bf/gf when you guys already had trouble? How'd it turn out? Thanks!

2007-03-08 06:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When a guy says he loves not like but loves a picture of you is he just being flirty or is he into you? And what if he saw another picture and told you it was hot? Does it mean he's into you or is just being flirty? And no it's not provacative photos or anything revealing, they're just regular photos.

2007-03-08 06:05:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a spouse has lost love for his spouse, can his love come back?

2007-03-08 06:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by piglet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend & I have been together for about 3 years (rocky years) He has his own condo, I'm 24, I still live home as I'm a student & can't afford to go it alone yet. We fight alot already, have broken up a few times for a few days at a time. For some reason, we just CAN'T let each other go. Even when we are making each other miserable being broken up feels far worse. Anyways, my mother is sick of my drama, so she suggested that I just move in with him, she thinks then I'd finally see how bad it would be & I would dump him for good. Anyone out there move in with their bf/gf when you guys already had trouble? How'd it turn out? Thanks!

2007-03-08 06:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when u have hurt your father not phyically but mently and he holds that against you but still lets you stay with him and still shows you how much he cares for you . We sometimes argue about what i did and im sorry i cannot tell yall what i did i will just say it was bad and wrong. but anyways when he brings it up and yells at you and you tell him no matter what if you could go back and do things diffrently then you would but you cant so you ask for his forgiveness but he tells you he will neva forget and he will no longer trust you. I love my father with all of my heart and i want to do something for him to show him that i am not only sorry but i love and care very much. but i dunno what to do , what yall think?

2007-03-08 06:04:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For me, mainly psychological, yet I guess the worst was pushing a table over someone while they were doing their homework. Pushing the table and ramming them to the floor, printer and everything else that was on the table, falling off.

2007-03-08 06:03:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im going ski'ing with a friend thats a girl that I have known for about 2 years we both really like eachother but have never kissed because we can never get away form our parents now,were going to be alone all day on a ski slope. I have never kissed any1 before so im a little embarassed and worried, she has kissed som1 b4 so she has more experince. When should I kiss her what kind of kiss, and please dont give me an answer like : pull down her pants and finge the **** out of her, this is serious if I were older I would marry this firl, im 14 bye the way. Answer away!

2007-03-08 06:03:26 · 2 answers · asked by forumrider93 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is so overprotective im 11 and he acts like i cant put my own coat on her picks me up everyday after school sayign weirds things causing my friends to stare at me i cant go to my school by myself and its only 1 block away 1! i tried to tell him but he just wont listen and gets mad a me help!

2007-03-08 06:03:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im going ski'ing with a friend thats a girl that I have known for about 2 years we both really like eachother but have never kissed because we can never get away form our parents now,were going to be alone all day on a ski slope. I have never kissed any1 before so im a little embarassed and worried, she has kissed som1 b4 so she has more experince. When should I kiss her what kind of kiss, and please dont give me an answer like : pull down her pants and finge the **** out of her, this is serious if I were older I would marry this firl, im 14 bye the way. Answer away!

2007-03-08 06:03:11 · 3 answers · asked by forumrider93 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged to a great guy, but I cheated w/ someone else. The other guy is in LOVE with me and I thought I was with him as well. I realize I really love my fiance & want to marry him. How do I break up with this other guy?? He has no idea that I'm engaged and actually thinks my boyfriend and I broke up??

2007-03-08 06:02:22 · 16 answers · asked by sgb 1 in Singles & Dating

should i break up with her or just stay with her and keep trying to work it out please write back and thank you

2007-03-08 06:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by Brandon A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 06:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he has cheated and lied about it..and continues to lie

2007-03-08 06:02:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. i've been too nervous 2 ask out my crush, so my friend decided 2 ask him wat he thinks of me. i really like him, and i dont want 2 mess things up. we're amazing friends, and i'm scared bout wat he'll say. is it a good idea 2 get my friend 2 tlk 2 him? should i ask him out??? wat should i do??????????????????

2007-03-08 06:01:57 · 4 answers · asked by Khadi3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 06:01:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i usually get mine done every 2 weeks, always a french manicure

2007-03-08 06:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

Can this even work out?

2007-03-08 06:00:37 · 26 answers · asked by Gatumadre!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Now I can not get excited by the thought of him. I actually don't get excited by the thought of us...I usually fantasize about him with someone else? Why wouldn't I dream of me with some hot guy...I swear he had all the fun and still does even in MY head. What's wrong with me?

2007-03-08 06:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by BellaLuna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone who knows me by Travis....well I have listen and respected all of your answers but, Travis did break up with me and now I need real support..you all have helped me get him , and help me understand that, I was going to lose him and of course I did.....in 3rd period I lost him and cried ALOT..so Thanks-You all for the big support (Not Joking)

Love you all................

2007-03-08 05:59:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some artist or songs to play at my wedding. Some fun, some romantic and awesome.

I already have rock the casbah-the clash
dock of the bay-otis redding
Benny and the Jets- Elton John

Stuff like that....

2007-03-08 05:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by beach_bummet 3 in Weddings

2007-03-08 05:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by misspopular 1 in Friends

So I went out with this girl few night ago for the first time, everything went fine but I need a womens opinions btw we are in late 20's
when I dropped her off back at her place, it was around midnight during weekday, she asked me if I want to come up, so I told her only if she wants me to come up. This is when she said I don't want to be rude or anything. I asked her if she had any movies we could watch but she didn't, so i told her I'll just let her go to sleep, she had to weak up early for jury duty
she leaned forward to give me a kiss, and so did i but I kissed her on the cheek and I think she was going for my lips. I should have at least walk her to the door....before she left she said call me when you get home , just want to make sure you got there alright
I know she is not that kind of a girl that would put out on a first date, and thats not what I'm looking for anyways so don't anyone suggest that
its not that I don't like her, because I do, she has everything I would look for in a girl, but I'm fresh (4months) out of a 5year relation ship and I think I might be intimidated by the whole thing
i'm totlay over my ex, i dont realy care about her anymore so thats not it...its just its been long time since i've been out on a “date”
I hope she didnt feel rejected, it wasnt my intention.before she left the car I asked her if she wants to go out again and she said sure. I have very strange work schedule and its hard for me to find time. We were supposed to meet the next day but i had to go to work and I wont be back till next weekend
was I right to decline the offer?
What would you girls think of me if it was you?
What should I do different next time around

2007-03-08 05:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Planning a simple wedding with garden theme in oct, and looking for simple wedding centre pieces... is there a good website, which i can use for ideas?

2007-03-08 05:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Perhaps with WALDO???

2007-03-08 05:57:06 · 14 answers · asked by mushroomchucker 1 in Singles & Dating

please help!

2007-03-08 05:56:14 · 21 answers · asked by [[SaMmY]] 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-fiance that I was with for 5 years, recently found me after 8 years. We're both married and happy. Is it ok to have a friendship now?

2007-03-08 05:55:40 · 17 answers · asked by ReneeD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend, he has made it clear that I get nothing if something happens to him. I could live in his house but I could have no man! now he has a job an hour drive away, He wants me to quit my job here and us move over there and me get another job and live in a 30' camper! I have a horse, a bird, and a dog that I love too and he wants me to get rid of them and do this move, I don't want to get rid of them, He is very controlling, I can't go anywhere without reporting in every so often, What should I do.????

2007-03-08 05:55:10 · 26 answers · asked by Gayle G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well when i asked where the line was between kinky and sick and should i tell him before we get married. i left some stuff out.
i'm a woman 36 yrs of age and my man is 49 and i have fantasies about wanting to give it to be the man for a change and do what he does to me in every way... i think it would be hot to do it but i'm worried that if i ask him he might think that i'm sick. also it really turns me on to be wet ALL over and rub it into my skin i haven't asked him to do that but i think that he might be ok with doing that on me. i also wonder about public places, animals and rape. not sure just how much i should tell him and how much i should continue to bury in case it's just too much for him to take. there ya go .... that's about it in a nutshell. Let me know if my fantasies go too far please i really need the input. thanks

2007-03-08 05:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Singles & Dating