I'm engaged to a great guy, but I cheated w/ someone else. The other guy is in LOVE with me and I thought I was with him as well. I realize I really love my fiance & want to marry him. How do I break up with this other guy?? He has no idea that I'm engaged and actually thinks my boyfriend and I broke up??
2007-03-08 06:02:22 · 16 answers · asked by sgb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think first you need to be honest with your fiance and see if he will except you back after you tell him the truth...otherwise he might find out from someone else...and then let the other guy know the truth on how you feel and your situation...I think once you clear the air with all this cheating and sneaking who ever is left stand is the one who actually cares for you....and your decision on who you really love could possibly change...Good Luck
2007-03-08 06:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you really love your fiance as much as you think you do if you are so willing to cheat on him after you got engaged. Does he know? Doesn't he have a right to start his life with you on a trusting and honest basis? What if your lover, after being dumped by you, turns around and tells your fiance? Shouldn't you tell him first? He will be much more willing to forgive if he hears it from you and not some guy. If that happened to me, I would dump you. Do you really know what love is? I doubt it.
2007-03-08 06:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had kept it in your pants you would not be in this situation. Tell the guy you cheated with the truth and that though the sex was okay you don't want him anymore. Then you go and tell your fiance because he will find out eventually. If he doesn't dump you it was meant to be. If he does dump you hopefully you have learned your lesson and get on with your life and find a man you won't cheat on.
2007-03-08 06:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of an easy way out of that one. one day, you will need to face the truth about how love really lives. It reminds me of a story i once read about a young heart with a treasure it did not understand ,and as the young heart shared the treasure a tarnish began to show the treasure did not shine for the young heart as it did in the beginning of found love, the young heart became very sad toward the middle of a day when it realized the tarnish could not easily wash away.
2007-03-08 06:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're terrible. How dare you think you can hurt someone so horribly and still have the audacity to even THINK you can keep them around. You need to dump BOTH of them and seek professional help. Either that or find a completely new boyfriend. How would you feel if the person you thought wanted to spend the rest of your life with you, was ****** around with some other guy, and then thinks they can still have thier cake and eat it too?!
2007-03-08 06:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Tell him you dont have the feelings you should for him and think its time you went your seperate ways. Tell him he is a great guy and you wish you could have them feelings for him but you dont.
Then run back to your fiance and hope he never finds out!
Good luck!
2007-03-08 06:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of happens, do no longer go stalker on him. provide him some area, detect your concepts. genuine now, you're his to do regardless of you opt to with and if he's no longer that super of a guy, you may land up getting injury (emotionally) and dropping numerous time. maximum adult males might land up coming back in case you have been looking around and that they did no longer take your with none attention.
2016-09-30 09:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by barksdale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reap what you sow. Tell both of them the truth and then pick up the pieces. If you don't, it will only ruin your marriage, believe me. If you really love him, the fact that you're keeping a secret from him will eat you up. You'll find out which one actually loves you too.
2007-03-08 06:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by bluestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dug that hole...part of your karma is to figure a way out of it as best you can.
In the future, remember all actions have repercussions and to treat others as you'd like to be treated...by your actions you've okay'd yourself to be cheated on...now aren't you hoping your fiance' isn't that kinda guy???
2007-03-08 06:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you should have never cheated but im not here to judge. you need to leave and tell him that you are really in love with your fiance and that he helped you see that and if he realy does love you he'll understand.
2007-03-08 06:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋