After over 7 years my husband has admitted to being gay (after I caught him). I'm sooooo glad I decided to wait before having kids, so it was just the 2 of us. I love him dearly, but the lack of sex and passion has sucked and I'm excited to start over. He is already with 2 other people and has moved out. We aren't divorced yet, but as soon as he finds a job and gets 250 bucks, it's as good as done. I would like be friends with him but I am still very angry at this point and afraid that he could manipulate my feelings into taking him back. Has anyone else had this experience? Are you still friends? How long did you wait before talking?
2007-03-08 06:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't know about the position your in i was just the opposite i was the one telling my husband i was a lesbian but in my case after the emotional blow up and there was one believe me but after it was done we came to be better friends then we ever were,its been 12 years and we are still friends and his new wife is perfect for him they stay in my home when they are in town we all get along great the ex his new wife me and my partner and all the children i know it sounds very Jerry Springer lol but we are so not Jerry its funny.the best thing to do is divorce him and both move on but there is no reason to think he would want you back sorry but its true he has decided his life and it doesn't include you so i think its safe to talk to him.i would however get myself tested not because he is gay but he cheated any woman or man that's been cheated on and slept with their mate during the time they were cheating needs to be tested to be safe stds are not exclusive to homosexuals.
2007-03-08 06:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by patbgone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what's wrong with you getting up the $250 and filing for divorce? And yes I know a couple who divorced after a few years because one of the spouses was gay. They had kids however so were forced to remain on a communicative level Their youngest is now in highschool and they've put their differences behind them.
2007-03-08 15:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Oprah W. at March 6, 2007. I believe you can find it on the Internet. That program was right about what you are asking. Real people were talking about the same situation you got.
Anyway, wish you Great Luck!!!
2007-03-08 14:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had two friends who husband did this and neither one of them talk to their ex husbands.
2007-03-08 14:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this guy. Have your self tested. Find a straight man and don't look back.
2007-03-08 14:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
gross....you want to be with him even though his shlong has been in a guys back door? omg hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll noooooooooooooooooooo
2007-03-08 14:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by icecreamheadache420 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
why would he want to come back?
2007-03-08 14:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by john j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋