Lines between kinky / sick ?

Question

Well when i asked where the line was between kinky and sick and should i tell him before we get married. i left some stuff out.
i'm a woman 36 yrs of age and my man is 49 and i have fantasies about wanting to give it to be the man for a change and do what he does to me in every way... i think it would be hot to do it but i'm worried that if i ask him he might think that i'm sick. also it really turns me on to be wet ALL over and rub it into my skin i haven't asked him to do that but i think that he might be ok with doing that on me. i also wonder about public places, animals and rape. not sure just how much i should tell him and how much i should continue to bury in case it's just too much for him to take. there ya go .... that's about it in a nutshell. Let me know if my fantasies go too far please i really need the input. thanks

Answer 1

Wow, can I say that again? ... WOW and that's not a good wow by the way.

When it comes to your sex life you should be very open as open as you can be. Intimacy is all about being yourself and being open but at the same time you must consider the needs of your partner and his inhibitions. He might not like some of the things that you like and in reality he might even be concerned with some of your quirks.

Don't you want a person that will like you for who you are? Someone that will accept you and all of you, that means the good and the bad. Otherwise your relationship will only be based on "what I want you to be and not on whom you really are."

Have a talk with him and see what he thinks. Remember that a relationship is about give and take, it’s about working things out and having to overlook some things and being accepting of your differences.

Answer 2

Honestly your entitled to think/want/feel whatever you want....As far as the line, for me it's a thin line but for others, it's thicker then Roseanne. Approach your man kinda like the way you did on...Inform him that your not a sick freak or anything but these things totally turn you on and you were wondering if he'd care to help these things become reality. Don't just do them approach it with caution and make sure he knows your not out to be the sick freak you may sound like you are but your really not. Good luck and let me know if any of them come true. Some of those are really interesting fantasies that I highly doubt I'll ever try.

Answer 3

ok..well..why dont you start off with the soft stuff (rub it into skin, public places) then take it up a notch (reversal role playing) and so on & so forth..after experiencing all that with ur partner hopefully the rest of your fantasies wont be so hard to fulfill..always keep in mind you have to start of with baby steps..good luck..oh you might wanna keep the animal thing for the very last..

Answer 4

Most of what you said is just kinky--the rest is sick(my opinion). Let your man know what you like and don't like. If you all are going to get married he should know what buttons to push to get you going. There's no reason to have a marriage with boring sex.

Answer 5

ANIMALS??? Reverse role play??? RAPE?!?!?!?!!? That is awful. Out of those, public places and reverse role play are the least kinky ones. The others are sort of (not sort of, REALLY) sick. seek therapy or find someone else to put up with it

Answer 6

I say That animals

Answer 7

I think that it is a little sick but to each it's own.

Answer 8

just tell him, and if he thinks ur sick, give me a call

Answer 9

Wow...your a guys dream come true....

Answer 10

it is both