Do you think you should be cool with a friend that said they were going to do something and didn't?

Question

My friend was suppose to come to my house one saturday night and pick me up so we could go skating together. Well in order to get to my house there are s curves. Now she knew it was going to be dark when she came to get me and yet she waited till past 7 to say she was scared to drive to my house up those s curves in her truck, especially since it was dark. At first I wasn't mad but then I became furious when I tried to tell her the other way to get to my house and she wasn't listening. I was so pissed off. Right now it has been 5 days since I've talked to her. Am I overreacting a bit or does she deserve not to be spoken to since she said she was going to come and pick me up and didn't. I already told my boyfriend, her boyfriend, and my friend that I wasn't speaking to her so I don't plan on talking to her, even though my buddy said I should. What's your opinion America????????????

Answer 1

Settle down, and look that good friend of yours in the eyes and ask, "So whats the deal with not comin to my house". If bs begans to flow forth, then say before she is even finishes ,"you don't have to lay to kick it" if she doesn't laugh and tell you the truth and insteads keeps telling you bs, let her know that you don't need a butch of bs from your friends and cut her off. If she breaks down and tells you the truth just listen and be understanding. Thats the best I can do without know more of you history with her.