i see him every day in school he does anything i tell him to but when he ask to go out wit me i dnt kno how to say no so i just keep on lying wat should i do?
2007-03-08 05:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest, they might get mad but I promise guys would rather a girl just tell him the truth then lead him on. I never understood why people prefer to "let others down softly" You recover quicker from a harder fall. It knocks sense into you and forces you to move on.
2007-03-08 05:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is not any reliable for you!!! you ought to have a guy that needs you If he truly wanted to flow out with you, he could've requested you first. He does look like the variety of guy that only needs a gf. There could've been truly some issues in a while in case you adult males could've went out. He only looks truly wondered and would not understand what he needs. If he can get his act jointly, then perhaps he could a gf.
2016-12-05 10:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him, dont ever lead anyone on this is never a good ending to any story. Tell him that you like him as a friend it may hurt him and he might stop talking to you but atleast you were honest.
2007-03-08 05:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stop asking him to do things for you, that way he won't think you owe him anything. When he asks you out, tell him you'll go out with him as friends, and that you're not looking for anything more right now. You have to concentrate on school... blah blah. you can think of something.
2007-03-08 05:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by kebbs32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and quit dragging it out. By letting him think he stands a chance you'll hurt him worse in the end. Let him know you can be friends (if that's what you want), but nothing more.
2007-03-08 05:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Just D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be really clear and honest but be kind about it(rejection can damage a guy's pride)and tell him he's not you type, it may be kind of mean but better tough than to have a constant annoyance type who just doesn't know when to move on.(but you never know you might miss him when he is gone)
2007-03-08 06:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't interested in him, and stop using him as a butler, and learn to be a decent young lady.
How hard is it to be decent and truthful?
2007-03-08 05:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, look, I'm not into you. I like as you as a friend, but anything more than that....it's just happening. I'm sorry.
2007-03-08 05:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell him that u don't wanna go out with him .there's no other way.actually since he does everything you want him to, u could use him for a while but you'll have to talk to him whatever
2007-03-08 05:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
string him along if you need the attention that bad
hope you are getting something out of this guy
2007-03-08 05:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋