OK i went out with this girl for a month 3 months ago and when we split we stayed close friends. But then my other best m8 who at the time had a girlfriend began to get closer to her and she started to havce feelings for him. So he split with his GF a week ago and has just asked her out and she said yes!!! ANd i have never been so angry in my life! i have to see them every day at school and it really really pains me to se my 2 best mates betray me like this....my parents say i should drop this...but how can i? I still have feelings for her, and i feel like my best mates have stabbed me in the back!! I keep having arguements with her about this, saying that its not fair to me and stuff..and for some reason i just CANT let her go, i think about her all the time, wever been over for 4 months...i just dont no what more i can do!!
2007-03-08 05:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter how you look at this it totally blows!! There is nothing you can do at this point. But there are three things you HAVE to do. #1 Stop obsessing over this girl and move on to someone else and don't give her the time of day you have to cut it off clean. Don't give her the satisfaction of your pain. #2 LOSE THE MATE- He apparently didn't care for you so much or he wouldn't have done that to you. Even if you were broken up that is just a big no, no for friends to do to each other. He's obviously selfish and you don't need to surround yourself with people like that.#3 Try and find better people to be friends with they aren't hard to find.Genuine people do exist try not to be shallow when looking for friends.
Look for people that aren't judge mental of others and believe that what happened to you is wrong make sure you agree on the terms of friendship.
Don't worry you have the rest of your life you are too young to be hung up on this girl that clearly doesn't care about you. And you'll see that friends come and go this is all part of life that's where "you live and learn" came from.
I wish you the best. Sorry about the broken heart but "this too shall pass". And don't be surprised if sometimes your parents are right it does happen. Good Luck.! :)
2007-03-08 06:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, if you split with her why do you care now who is going out with her? Split means no more ties and she is free to date any one any time any where she wants.
Find another girl to date and in the meantime play a tune on the bagpipes like the "Black Bear" to march away.
2007-03-08 06:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 14:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by barsky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away why get your self in to trouble over her go find other friends
2007-03-08 06:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋