Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

My girlfriend’s problem with bulimia really gets her down. She is often depressed which makes her cold and distant toward me. She is ashamed of being bulimic, and she is ashamed of feeling depressed. So, she often tries to pretend that everything is fine; she tries to pretend that she is happy. But, I can always tell that something is wrong. When I try to talk to her about it she laughs at me and tells me that I am imagining things. Otherwise, she is very good to me. She is beautiful and always puts me first. I have stood by her for several years, but nothing is improving. I feel lonely around her. I never know what she is really feeling inside. I have told her that she needs professional help, but she thinks that she can handle this on her own. She has a lot of issues from her past that she refuses to deal with. She tries to convince herself that she had a perfect childhood. I wonder if I could have a better relationship with someone who is healthy. Should I leave?

2007-03-08 09:38:14 · 12 answers · asked by Horace 2 in Singles & Dating

every morning she will call him to come and pick her up every day. Plus we only have one car and i am a stay home mom so i really dont get to go anywere. Plus one time i needed to use the car and drop my husband to work plus her , one time i was in the car and see had offer him some man collonge and deoredorent he said no ,i could tell she want's to be in his pants so bad. Today i could't take it no more i called her and told her to bud out and catch the damn bus my husband heard the conversation and he did not say a word. i called my husband and said are you upset what i did and he said no. But i really felt bad of what i did because he was in the car hearing the arguement over the phone maybe he knows now i cant trust him at all.

2007-03-08 09:38:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-08 09:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do rich and famous men like Donald Trump get a free pass from women on hair crimes?

2007-03-08 09:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Benji 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 09:37:21 · 24 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 09:37:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to make friends but nobody seems to like me... wenever i talk 2 someone they walk away or ignore me.. its really getting to me.. i think they dont like me because i play runescape.. im the only kid at skool who plays the game and i play it 4 like 5 hrs a day. im not fat or ugly im 18 yrs old and a senior at my skool. wenever i go to the library to play runescape during lunch/b4 skool/after skool they fart on me and call me pizza face. i thought being a lvl 126 mage would make me cool. i really want to make friends.. plz help me..

2007-03-08 09:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by fdhdf s 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I know I am really young but I am having my first boyfriend now. He fits all of the catagories that I like in guys. One day he was being a real jerk. I thought that he wasn't so great anymore until he emailed me this huge thoughtful apology that I thought was sooooooo sweet. I have never loved a guy before him but am really in love with this guy.

2007-03-08 09:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by Coolyo 1 in Singles & Dating

and you are a little overweight....how would that make you feel, to see him looking at skinny naked women with like the almost perfect body

2007-03-08 09:36:32 · 29 answers · asked by yayasmamma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or man has taken over your life? My ex left for the other woman. We were having problems that I thought could be worked out with counselling and communication. I believed we both wanted a better relationship. However, I made the mistake of thinking he wanted it with me. It's been almost a year now and I am moving on - new job, new house, new friends. But sometimes it feels as though she has won. She has my now ex husband, my son every other weekend, my now ex-family in law who I loved. They are building a new life together while I am still in the process of putting mine back together. It just does not seem fair! I know I am whining but just feeling a little down today. Any thoughts to cheer me up??

2007-03-08 09:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last weekend at work we had a project to do the three of us me this guy(my crush) and another co-worker. The other co-worker went home left me and him. This weekend wanted to do another project just me and him, tell me is he trying to be alone with me? Why? And yes he likes me

2007-03-08 09:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

If a man is insecure about himself, is he more likely to cheat in a relationship?

2007-03-08 09:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is also my best friend and he likes to meet who im dating and he really wants to meet my new bf as he wants to be mates with them. my bf says he will meet him but wont give him any respect should i let them meet or should i keep avoiding the subject

2007-03-08 09:35:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are friend we talk all the time. how do i convince her to live her boy friend for me. she allready i like her.and i know she like me to.

2007-03-08 09:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and this boy use to talk i mean we didn't date we just talked on the phone andd everything we were on the verge of going out. then he started to talk to my friend. but then i guess he moved on from her. and now he wants to talk to me again. i know he wants to talk to me again bc now he flirts with me and plays around and he even makes bet's with me bout kissin me. i mean but im worried that if i give him another chance then he might do it again. so do i give him a second chance???????????????

2007-03-08 09:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE!!!

2007-03-08 09:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for nearly two weeks, and I really like him. But, lately I think he's kind of getting annoyed at me. I seem to always be where he is (it's a total axident) and I think he's kind of gets to much of me. What do I do? Yesterday, he asked me (on the bus) if it was ok if we didn't sit together sometimes, or if blah blah blah. What would you do?

2007-03-08 09:34:07 · 25 answers · asked by yoyoyowatup3579 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in six months. We are paying for everything ourselves so we want the cheapest route possible. I am wanting to make my invitations from the computer, does anyone have any ideas or web pages for a homemade wedding invitation?

2007-03-08 09:34:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is this true? I've heard it before. [I think Oprah has said it hah]

If so, how does it change them? What kind of arguing affects them? Simple yelling arguments, or something more severe like physical abuse?

And how often would it have to occur to have an effect? Daily? Weekly?

2007-03-08 09:33:42 · 14 answers · asked by midnitesky00 2 in Family

I have looked up symptoms and from what i can tell He is betwwen a level 3-4. I have tried to explain calmley that I think he made need medication to control his anger. This just makes it worse. He gets very offended and gets even more upset. I love my Husband and I know that the way he is acting is not his fault.My husband used to be very easy to get along with, would make new friends on a daily basis, and sooo funny. I have even spoke with his mother and she agrees he should probably be on medication as well. His symptoms make me depressed and I am now on medication to help me deal with his outbursts. Anyone have any suggestions?
(LEAVING HIM IS NOT AN OPTION)

2007-03-08 09:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by stick_e_bun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seen in Indian movies, wonderful,awesome indian girls.............How could have one??????????

2007-03-08 09:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by wakecalm 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I know that person didn't create a fake identity for themselves and trying to bullshit with you?

2007-03-08 09:32:45 · 1 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

I am fifteen and I've had only 4 boyfriends. He's much more experienced than I am and I feel really childish for not knowing how to kiss at all.

But from the little experience I've had so far, I like it!

So, i just want to know if you want to share. Thanks!

2007-03-08 09:32:15 · 19 answers · asked by 2-cool-2-b-me 1 in Singles & Dating

an ex-wife or ex-husband. How many have more than one and if you could would you go back to them if they wanted you back?

2007-03-08 09:32:00 · 14 answers · asked by Elvis lives! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what if the mother doesnt want to share custody or give visitation ?

2007-03-08 09:31:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been really depressed lately my best friend in the world moved and she was like my sheld from commits and stuff
i loved her to death and when she moved well i went emo ..
just not sooo bad as cutting myself
and well now i cry over lots of things people who have never ever seen me cry now they have ...
i feel sooo weak ...
i had a boyfriend but he was sorta emo too and just brought me down more ...
my ex * not the emo one he got kicked out of my school*
makes me laugh all the time but when he's gone it just kinda dissapears ...
my mom and my doctor ... said if my depression gets worse ...
i'm going to have to take ... * happy pills ... at age 12 going on 13 * i don't want it to get worse i've tryed out for everthing
everything even cheerleading but i didnt make none of the above ....
help me please !!!
i dont wanna take depression pills not even if i have too !!!!!!

2007-03-08 09:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Alice in NeverLand. 2 in Singles & Dating

Both guys are sweet but one gives me better attention!?!

2007-03-08 09:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this man and found out he was dating someone else. He said it was not serious, I found out it is. I wrote him a letter to let him know that as long as he is with her he cannot be with me. I also said that I would like to remain friends. I asked him to call or write me back to let me know what he thought. This was two days ago, and I still haven't heard from him. This couldn't have made him mad, because he is the one doing wrong, not me, right?

2007-03-08 09:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by jabegall 3 in Singles & Dating

i have recently married and i am having problems with my husbands Daughter, She is 7 and an only child and lives with her mother, my husband has her 2 days a week and every other weekend. her behavoiur is terrible, i have discussed this with my husband but he just thinks moving her out of the situation is the answer rather than dealing with the issue at hand. i have 2 children from a previous marriage they ae 13 yr old girl and 12 yr old boy, they cannot even be in the same room as her. Any suggestions, it has got to the point my husband has moved out of our home....

2007-03-08 09:30:49 · 23 answers · asked by CAT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 09:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships