well me and this boy use to talk i mean we didn't date we just talked on the phone andd everything we were on the verge of going out. then he started to talk to my friend. but then i guess he moved on from her. and now he wants to talk to me again. i know he wants to talk to me again bc now he flirts with me and plays around and he even makes bet's with me bout kissin me. i mean but im worried that if i give him another chance then he might do it again. so do i give him a second chance???????????????
2007-03-08 09:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, yes. But wait until you have some sort of sign that this time he's for serious. If you take him back too readily he's going to think that he can always get away with it and you'll forgive him and take him back...and you do not, repeat DO NOT, want him to feel that way about you.
2007-03-08 09:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should give him a second chance! I don't even think he did anything wrong in the first place. You guys were not official, so it is not like he wasn't allowed to talk to her. He's a free agent until he's in a relationship. I don't understand why you had to stop talking to each other. If you do end up going out with him, you definitely need to work on controlling your jealousy. If you got upset at him for talking to your friend when you weren't going out, imagine how bad it'll be when you're actually going out with him.......but yes I definitely think the boy deserves a second chance.
2007-03-08 17:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. A little honesty never hurt anybody. The worst he could do is not want to talk to you anymore, but what would it matter? I'm sure you weren't waiting for him to be done with her so he could play you. Tell him he needs to grow up and figure out what he wants. There are plenty of guys out there, why settle for the first jerk that comes back around? I'm sure you are a smart girl and will make the right decisions.
2007-03-08 17:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by lalia_80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should wait to see what happens. Im not sure if this is anything to help you make a choice or anything but after my gf broke up with me, she asked me out and then broke up with me the next day. She hurt me twice in one week.
2007-03-08 17:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He isn't worth your time.
2007-03-08 17:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by 14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋