every morning she will call him to come and pick her up every day. Plus we only have one car and i am a stay home mom so i really dont get to go anywere. Plus one time i needed to use the car and drop my husband to work plus her , one time i was in the car and see had offer him some man collonge and deoredorent he said no ,i could tell she want's to be in his pants so bad. Today i could't take it no more i called her and told her to bud out and catch the damn bus my husband heard the conversation and he did not say a word. i called my husband and said are you upset what i did and he said no. But i really felt bad of what i did because he was in the car hearing the arguement over the phone maybe he knows now i cant trust him at all.
2007-03-08 09:38:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think she is your friend. Ever see fatal attraction. He may feel an obligation to her because she claims to be your friend. Maybe having a talk with him about these feelings may relieve the stress for both of you. get rid of the Vampiress ;)
2007-03-08 09:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he could give her a ride. Cologne is not much, cause I even give my best friend Eli some out of no where. I'm also a very random person though. Trying talking to the woman again and try to understand her. Sort of yelling at her to ride a damned bus wasn't the best way to start out. In your topic, you said she was a female friend, well if that's so, then you should be able to trust her somewhat. Good luck though.
2007-03-08 17:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sammi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to talk to your husband, secondly why not take him in and bring the car back. Then fetch him come evening. It gives you a chance to get out, you can do the shopping on the way back together, and occaisionally stop and have a meal in say a fast food joint as a change.
That will also deter your "friend" from trying to chase your husband.
You realize of course that your husband may even be terrified of her in some way but cannot think how to stop her without making you think its him.
One woman I would not go round her house alone. I told my wife and she thought it was funny, but believe me it was not...
2007-03-08 17:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by rinfrance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont regret doing it. U had a gut feeling and u acted on it.
Dont let anyone step on your toes and if it was obvious to u that she was up to no good, then u had every right to do it.
U defended what was urs and should not regret anything.
Hubby will be fine. He would probably do the same thing if the shoe were on the other foot and a pal did that to u. Dont fret over it.
Good job.
2007-03-08 17:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but i think you were overreacting just a little bit. The key word is "friend" & that's all she was to him. You can't let your jealousy ever get the best of the situation b/c men hate that & he will think you don't trust him. When all along it's her you don't trust. Tell him you're sorry & keep your cool next time.
2007-03-08 18:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she is a really good friend and you trust her you should go for it cuz then you might lose a very good friend who was probably only trying to be friendly, and it also depends on if you trust your husband, bcuz you should trust your husband i mean you married him
2007-03-08 17:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by sandysuall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe your husband would put you in such an awkward situation to begin with. You were right in putting her in her place. She sounds like a tramp. No way should you have to put up with that. I think your husband needs to apologize to you for not stopping her suggestive behavior himself.
2007-03-08 17:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...you shouldn't worry about it...everyone goes through that at some piont in there life...i would probably do the same thing...and it is not because you can't trust him...it's because you can't trust the girl...and i don't blame you....if she can do that while you are in the car then she most bee a hoe or something(no offence)...well i wouldn't worry about it...
2007-03-08 17:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have tell him how you feel, and let him take care of it. He should be the one telling her he is not going to pick her up and give her rides anymore.
2007-03-08 17:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you nipped the problem in the bud..
Good girl....
2007-03-08 17:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋