my ex is also my best friend and he likes to meet who im dating and he really wants to meet my new bf as he wants to be mates with them. my bf says he will meet him but wont give him any respect should i let them meet or should i keep avoiding the subject
2007-03-08 09:35:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex is from almost a year ago we broke up on ok terms and theres no feeling towards each other.
2007-03-08 09:48:33 · update #1
my ex dont bad mouth my bfs until after they dump me
2007-03-08 10:17:33 · update #2
Nope..
and stop seeing your Ex....
It will kill the relationship with your current b/f
2007-03-08 09:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been following your questions for the last few days and let me tell you ...your ex might be your best friend but he sure is azzhole for the things he has put you through and what he continues to put you through. I agree he is ex for a reason it is none of his business who you date. He has no reason to know. If he happpens to see you together then okay , but I wouldn't go out of my way for them to meet. Why introduce him what will it prove. The guy is a negative influence and you should limit your time around him. He doesn't want you to be happy is the bottom line. Concentrate on the relatinship at hand and good luck.
2007-03-08 17:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well here's a great way to let them meet without having to have them meet in person... it's called www.theexbook.com and you are able to post things about your ex and as well, they can speak to each other through the site... just an idea, hope everything goes well for you ;)
2007-03-08 17:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by thenuttybaldprofesser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are putting your self in an unnecacary war.
First off, your best friends with your ex
and he wants to meet all your boyfriends? UM, thats really weird and i bet he is gonna tell you how bad all these guys are for you, he probably wants you back!
And the only good thing that will come of this is your ex having power over you. (thats the good for him)
your current boyfriend is just going to mad and jelous that he is your best friend. and if he meets him, he is going to be mean, and will give your ex a reason to trash him to you.
tell your ex that your love life is none of his business. and i would advise, once you leave your boyfriends, dont keep them as best friends. not really the best ideia!
2007-03-08 18:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend he ows this guy his respect after all he is your mate say friends are forever and i want you both t get on when they meet make sure to start a convosation about something they both like eg football then they will start talking and get on really well
2007-03-08 17:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by dracofan93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you know it wont be a good situation since your new bf already said that he will not respect your ex so why would you do that.
2007-03-08 17:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex for a reason. Stop letting him control your life already.
2007-03-08 17:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Carlo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your new Boyfriend is secure in himself and with your new relationship, I can't see why he's give you a hard time about it...too bad you're not with your ex, who is you best friend...I married mine and he is the absolute best! (He's still a guy tho, so we still have issues now and then ;)...good luck with the new one, but my question to you - why would you deal with anyone that would give you stress with your best friend?...cheers!
2007-03-08 17:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by William's Mum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been the current bf in that situation and it hurt my feelings for a week
2007-03-08 17:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by All hat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its there lives,if they want to meet then let them.your boyfriend prolly wont like him just cuz hes ur best friend and ex.hes gunna be jealous.i dont thinm it will cause a problem between u and ur boyfriend unless you let it.if it really bothers him just just let him know that ur with him now not ur ex.so he shouldnt be worried
2007-03-08 17:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been dating for.. if you have been dating you new bf for a long time and he feels comfortable around you then i say let him met your ex. but if you are just starting to date, i say wait a while..
2007-03-08 17:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by stephanie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋