Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

My spouse and I were separated because he was physically abusive. We separated for a while, however while we were separated he became terribly ill. I just could not walk away and divorce him. In the meantime I have met another friend who treats me like a woman wants to be treated. He totally understands that I need to take care of my husband, however I feel guilty about this relationship. Am I so wrong for having these two relationships? The relationship with my husband is not physical at all!

2007-03-08 13:31:54 · 31 answers · asked by delovely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew one girl 2 years ago, I was sort of interested in her, and try to ask her out, but she didn't respond. Now, she suddenly ask me out, and shown interest in me from our converstaion. But I already have a gf now. Should I continuous to go out with her? I am sort of like her more than my current gf.

2007-03-08 13:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Tan D 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 13:31:18 · 41 answers · asked by Marty R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend. He thinks I like this guy and I don't. This guy that he thinks I like is just my friend. When I tell him that I don't like him he doesn't believe me. And, he has a jerk friend that tells him that I'm a liar. I really like this guy, what should I tell him?

2007-03-08 13:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i a guy told me this....ok well him and some other guys were at his house watching flippin porn on the internet!!! well anyways these were his exxact words.." well so and so(insert there names in the so's) went into the bathroom and hmmhmmmhmmmd..."yeah thats what he said. well i have my own ideas about what that means, but what about you guys? tell me what you think! this is important 4 me 2 know....(long story).thanks!

2007-03-08 13:30:27 · 1 answers · asked by annabanana 2 in Singles & Dating

What are so good contemprary love songs? I have Lost Without U(Robin Thicke), If It's Lovin' That You Want(Rihanna), and Crush(Ciara).

2007-03-08 13:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by i<3u 3 in Singles & Dating

is an over the road trucker and when he is around i feel like i can breath and that i am alive but when he leaves i feel like i will never go on. why does this happen and will it ever get better. anyone who can help please?

2007-03-08 13:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in a fantasy world about my crush, who is impossible to have for many reasons. I'm in a for-the-kids marriage. Thinking about a lifetime with this person makes me BEYOND depressed. How can I find my way back to happiness?

2007-03-08 13:28:35 · 32 answers · asked by Wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering if i know any of you? 7th or 8th graders?

2007-03-08 13:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here are the signs:
touches me on my butt
rubs my back
breast
thigh
and my @
hugs me called me babby, sweatheart, his girl
stars at me
when he gois out of town says he is back he cannot wait to see me.

2007-03-08 13:28:11 · 2 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help

2007-03-08 13:28:06 · 9 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

what about a guy do u find attractive? looks wise, personality wise, success, intelligence, athleticism, just the over all (is straight edge a plus?)

2007-03-08 13:27:33 · 24 answers · asked by vinvan 2 in Singles & Dating

The story in general. I'm a jap girl and my boy is from Spain. We met in japan and been dating for 1 and a half year. We are both very passionate, he's very fun-loving and honest. We were madly in love even we were apart. We met whenever we had vacations. Very great moments.

Sometimes he was confused about his feelings for me when we're apart, maybe coz of distance, or stress from work? But whenever we saw each other in person, all confusion would be gone.

The last time we met was January 2007. We had very great time, both were very in love; we were planning to meet in Easter. He said that he was gonna regret if he loses me.

However, he finally decided to break up with me this Feb, coz he has lost the love feelings, he doesnt have the motivation to make me happy with distance. He was very sad. But i think he has already got over this break-up now (he's a happy person who can get over sadness easily).

2007-03-08 13:27:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, well theres this guy i went out with last year and i really liked him and he broke up with me and i was sad and i felt bad but i got sad, buy oh well. you know, i got over it. and now he just asked me out and i dont know what to say. i m sorta still liking him and stuffs... but i dont know

2007-03-08 13:26:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's the details. I am in junior high in grade 7 and I have this huge crush on this girl but she seems to not be paying attention to me, I just wanna be friends with her, not too personal, just like uh friends. Today we had to choose books and she realy wanted this book and I ran to get that book, so I told her hey i am that book but she didn't pay attenion but when somebody else ( a friend of hers) told her that I had the book. SO she practically comes begging to me to give her the book and take her book that she had from the same series. So i OBVIOUSLY say fine and she's like THX so much! then she sorta hugs me!! Now what du i do, to become friends!!!

2007-03-08 13:26:38 · 5 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Singles & Dating

The teen has a caring mother who has given out groundings, and taken privelages away due to bad behavior. She has always been involved with the teens sports,school and social life.The teen is now dating and is a sports star in school. Lately, the teen has been constantly starting arguments with the mother, usually when she tell's the teen to do chores, buys the teen shoes on sale, or checks up on the teens computer. She feels her teen thinks that they are grown and in control. The teen is always telling the mother to shut her mouth, and calling her names and at times cursing at her, plus telling her " it's your fault for not spanking me". The father has never been involved in the teens life, and so the mom has taken that into consideration for the teens feelings, she has also given the teen some space because she remembers what it's like to be a kid. The mom is at her wits end, and is enforcing the teen to work over summer break. But, what can you do for punishment after a certain age?

2007-03-08 13:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by D S 2 in Family

2007-03-08 13:25:58 · 21 answers · asked by Nette 5 in Singles & Dating

Well, my friend lost his parents and a brother in a car accident, and I want to send something to will him to keep him motivated to really just keep living. Like a song or poem that says something about not giving up, or I'm there, or something encouraging.

Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-03-08 13:25:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Its 2am and im in true despair,i dont want any cruel answers.But after an incident that happened in my home between me and my daughters partner a few weeks ago where she sat and allowed him to verbally attack me,ive now read an email she sent my niece about this incident and shes lied about what happened and made me look like an uncaring mom.If you are a regular on here you may have seen some of my questions on my daughters wedding and relationship with this bully.Ive stood back for 71/2 years and said nothing.He over stepped the mark by his actions and words and as i predicted ive been used as the scapegoat.Im devastated at this latest betrayal and im having a hard time coping with the twisted lies.Im in shock that my own daughter who is 34 could do this to me.Im having doubts about myself as a mom,did i dream up my devotion to my 3girls.Im alone and already on diazepam to cope with the stress theyve already given me.None of you know me,ive been a devoted mom,why is she turning on me

2007-03-08 13:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Big momma 2 in Family

so I have liked this guy for a couple months, and i have noticed that he stares at me alot, i have also noticed that his friends stare at me too. Also when i walk past him and either me or one of my friends look back at him he is looking my way.

2007-03-08 13:24:49 · 33 answers · asked by slugbug! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 13:24:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

welll. my friend was cheated on and she just found out by one of his friends , well everyone knew and she was the last to know..well she had cheated onhim too , but hers was not a big deal..is it fair?

2007-03-08 13:23:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is this guy that i dated for 8months and i really liked him and i still do but he got a new girlfriend what should i do because i feel like there is no way possible i`m gonna get over him anytime soon. HELP!!!!!!!

2007-03-08 13:23:36 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 13:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i a guy told me this....ok well him and some other guys were at his house watching flippin porn on the internet!!! well anyways these were his exxact words.." well so and so(insert there names in the so's) went into the bathroom and hmmhmmmhmmmd..."yeah thats what he said. well i have my own ideas about what that means, but what about you guys? tell me what you think! this is important 4 me 2 know....(long story).thanks!

2007-03-08 13:22:45 · 2 answers · asked by annabanana 2 in Singles & Dating

This boy likes me, but I don't think I like him that much. I have wanted a real boyfriend for a while, but I think I only like the "idea" of a boyfriend, but I don't actually like the boy. I am so confused because he is really nice and funny, but I can only see us becoming really good friends. Sometimes, I like him, but sometimes I don't and I can't stop thinking about him and he makes me happy when I see him at school. This is so confusing, has anyone ever been in this situation?

2007-03-08 13:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a nice butt, and explain the ideal butt on a man for you

2007-03-08 13:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..so there is this guy that l am in love with in school. he has a girlfriend or should i say he had because he broke up with her yesterrday. he has liked me last year and maybe he still does. should i go up to him and tell him something??

2007-03-08 13:21:57 · 7 answers · asked by the hottie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 13:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a bf and we are crazy for each other.But maybe he loves me too much or he's lack of confidence,he easily gets paranoid and we have fights every time.And you know there can be some not solveable problems between two ppl,when ppl can have diff values.Like I think I dont want anyth to stress me out anymore,so at times I think of breaking up.Last nite we had a very big fight again,and he went crazy again.He threatened to put our videos on web site.the videos dont have my face but I think when he's so crazy,he can say whatever he wants to hurt me.I was shocked by his act.Could never imagine he could do this to me.We ended the fight alr,but now it's me who's paranoid.I dunno what to do.If I break up with him again he's gonna bug me like hell.And I dun think I can trust him anymore.So I dunno how I can handle this r/ship later on.Help pls!

2007-03-08 13:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating