I have a boyfriend. He thinks I like this guy and I don't. This guy that he thinks I like is just my friend. When I tell him that I don't like him he doesn't believe me. And, he has a jerk friend that tells him that I'm a liar. I really like this guy, what should I tell him?
2007-03-08 13:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIve me another suggestion than to break up with him please.
2007-03-08 13:36:15 · update #1
Tell him exactly how you feel. That you don't want to chose between your friend and your boyfriend. That he has friends too but it doesn't mean that he likes them. Just tell him that he has to make the decision to chose you or to keep listening to his jerk friend. Tell him how much you care about him and it really hurts you when he accuses you of that. If he really loves you he'll choose you over listening to what other people have to say.
2007-03-08 13:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all know that each of us has a apart of our emotional criteria or what ever you wanna call it or say it is that's jealous yet at times we can control it and at times we have a hard time controlling it.
It can be very dis-stressing to our girl friends or boyfriends & even husbands or wives to the extent that we get real sick & tired of it to where we leave them or in the wife & husband situation divorce the spouse.
It does not mean that there is any trapping or controling about to happen or going on.
All it is normaly is that the person that has that feeling or what have you else just means they do not want to lose the one in whome they love & want to spend their life with.
It's not only the males that do that it is also the females that do the same thing when it comes to the jealousy matter or feeling etc.
If it get to over bareing then just give him awarning thus first talk it over with him just you & him no one else is to be involved while you & he talk face to face camlbly & with true positive emotion no bull **** of any sort or mind games etc...
Thus if it continues for more then say 2 or 3 months or weeks or what have you else you may need to seperate for about a month or 7 weeks or both then if after that the situation has not changed then its apparent that he needs som counceling and you can support him through it to an extent thus after that its up to him to change not up to you.
You can not change him he is the only one who can if he wants to truthfully & honestly.
The same would be said for a female as well.
Thus again if it still is on going then you might as well make your move to choose to leave him or to stick it out with him.
No one can tell you what to do you are the only one who should make that choice or decission to do eaither or even as hard or hurtfull as it may be or feel or both.
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Note only you no one else for more advice or to talk about it more.
2007-03-08 22:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Grief, he sounds like one of them guys that are so agresive with there girl that they'll do anything. Even hurt their girlfriend and then say O, I'm sorry. If he really loves you, he'll believe you. I don't know, something tells me cut and run away before the pain comes. Might wanna tell your parnets too. Take caution girl, take caution girl.
2007-03-08 21:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me last year! and I lost the guy i thought i loved. Convince your friend to tell your boyfriend that you and him are just friends.
Hope it works out! :-)
2007-03-08 21:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by questions 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your boyfriend that this boy is a friend, not a boy friend. If he will not listen to you but would rather listen to his "friend" then he is probably not worth having as a boyfriend.
2007-03-08 21:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Contented 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to belive him becuase ur his girlfriend.
tell him if u liked the guy he thinks u like u would have left ur boyfriend along time ago
2007-03-08 21:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loser. Dump him. If he doesn't have faith in you ....you have nothing and you mean nothing to him. Ditch him and let him shack up with his jerk friend whom he obviously has more faith in than you.
2007-03-08 21:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friend is a jerk? well you can believe that your "boyfriend"is a jerk too.
2007-03-08 21:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off and learn how to trust you unless he has a reason not to.
2007-03-08 21:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by Khristine :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure and needs to grow up, DON'T let him pick your friends!!! friends are for ever and bf come and go!!!!! dump his A$$ and be done with him!!!!!
2007-03-08 21:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by fnkycash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋