hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
2007-03-08 13:28:06 · 9 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude just be yourself and go talk to the girl. Take it slow and become friends first.
and PLUS see the orange thing on my name? I COULD CARELESS ABOUT BEST ANSWER!
2007-03-08 13:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all i can recommend is that you talk to her, and simply be yourself. i can tell you a million things to say or do, but at the spark of the moment, the best thing to do, is just act friendly and be yourself, [don't try to set a fake impression on someone you like] and let her get to know you for who you really are.
if you can't really ask anyone out yet, or be in a serious relationship then simply become her friend. you guys will still be able to hang out with the whole school difference & stuff.
good luck :]
2007-03-08 21:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are 10 steps read them and I hope they help!!
Step one: Inhale and Exhale.. lol
Step two: All you need to say when you see her is hey are you busy this weekend and invite her to the movies
Step three: who says you gotta tell your parents about your girlfriend?
Step four: As for the movies since you cant drive have your parnets drop you off at the movies and tell her parents to drop her off at the movies
Step five: Yall can meet up at the movies or where ever yall wanna meet up
Step six:As for talking to her. All you need to do is take it easy and when you see her say hey whats up?
Step seven: You could talk about where she lives or pets anything that comes up
Step eight:Get ready and look nice for sunday so you can impress her just dont do nothing stupid like talk about how you work out and stuff.. stuff like that turns me off so just dress to impress
Step nine: Get to church early so if she gets there early yall can have time to talk befour mass starts
Step ten: Just be yourself and have fun..
GOODLUCK!!
2007-03-08 21:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being that u can't date any girls yet. just say hi to her at church. if she responds, then u introduce urself tell her ur name (if she doesnt already know it) tell her that u think she's nice and if she would like to come over to ur house and watch a movie (if she's allowed) maybe do some church stuff. and just become good friends.
2007-03-08 21:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay on safe ground and try and talk to her at church. tell her your name and talk about a theme covered in the sermon,ask her opinion.dont come on too strong.
tell her it was interesting talking to her and see if she would like to go and have a soda or something .smile and say you like her ,would she like to talk again,meet again etc.
crushes are maddeningly powerful.wish i had gotten some advice instead of blundering along.be honest,no b-s.,no swearing.good luck
2007-03-08 21:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang around the chirch with her. if there are any concerts coming up, u and her can meet therer in a group. i wouldnt call it a "date" but just a "social gathering"
2007-03-08 21:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start up a convo w/ her, then slowly bring up the topic..... just ask her what she likes and see what you guys have in common, then if you both like pizza then, go and take her to get pizza. but don't act too freaky ok? just R-E-L-A-X
2007-03-08 21:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by &thalia.belle; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out who cares what ur parents think they should be happy for u if she says yes. ask her out like "heey sarah i really like u and would love to go out sometime." if she says yes when u go out with her just say u'll be with other friends and ur parents should beleive u. if not then ur not convincing enough. just ask her out! she'll like that. WHO CARES WHAT YOUR PARENTS THINK!!!
2007-03-08 21:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe while your at church you could sit by her or maybe you can ask her to sit with you.
thats all i got
2007-03-08 21:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋