The story in general. I'm a jap girl and my boy is from Spain. We met in japan and been dating for 1 and a half year. We are both very passionate, he's very fun-loving and honest. We were madly in love even we were apart. We met whenever we had vacations. Very great moments.
Sometimes he was confused about his feelings for me when we're apart, maybe coz of distance, or stress from work? But whenever we saw each other in person, all confusion would be gone.
The last time we met was January 2007. We had very great time, both were very in love; we were planning to meet in Easter. He said that he was gonna regret if he loses me.
However, he finally decided to break up with me this Feb, coz he has lost the love feelings, he doesnt have the motivation to make me happy with distance. He was very sad. But i think he has already got over this break-up now (he's a happy person who can get over sadness easily).
2007-03-08 13:27:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I suggested to meet in Easter. he rejected. He said that he will ONLY treat me like a friend, he doesnt want 'something' to happen when we meet.
I still love him a whole lot. I dont know if i should still see him in easter in Spain. I always have a hope that "things will be fine if we meet". I dunno how possible it is to turn on his passion when we meet. I just think that im gonna regret in either cases. If i dont go, i will regret for not trying my best. If i go, luckily i can turn on our passion, but i cant afford it if he treats me cold, and i dont wanna look like a clingy sticky gal.
What should i do??? go or not????? please help me
2007-03-08 13:27:16 · update #1
Well I think you should not go. It will make you feel bad wif things didn't turn out the way you wanted. I suppose time is the only essense that can help both of you to re-kindle the love again. Good luck.
2007-03-08 13:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋