I knew one girl 2 years ago, I was sort of interested in her, and try to ask her out, but she didn't respond. Now, she suddenly ask me out, and shown interest in me from our converstaion. But I already have a gf now. Should I continuous to go out with her? I am sort of like her more than my current gf.
2007-03-08 13:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Tan D 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like her more than your current gf then say yes to the date. But maybe wait a little and see if you still like her in 2 weeks because it would suck to dump your gf for her then find out you don't like her in a week.
a gf is better than no gf.
2007-03-08 13:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bird in the hand worth 2 in the bush. There goes the old saying however, it is no harm to catch up with a chat with the girl. It may hurts your current gf, however, the saying goes. It hurts if she knows but it doesn't if she does not know about it.
It is good to find out what she have in the shelves and if you really think that is the right person then you have to choose only one.
I wish you good luck man and take it easy!
2007-03-08 13:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya it is your choice. Sounds like you are inclined to switch to the one you were interested in before. Maybe she is more for you, and maybe not, but if you go for the one you used to ask out and leave the one you have now you might be throwing away the one that is better for you. There is no way of knowing for sure. You should really evaluate what you have closely and ask yourself if it is worth giving up to take a chance. If the chance sems more certain go for it. If not you might want to stay with who you are with. If neither one seems to be that someone perfect for you it isn't such an important issue and you should be looking elsewhere.
2007-03-08 13:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide to do, DON'T two-time either of them. If you have a girlfriend, don't go on a date with another girl. I agree with the previous poster. You should let your gf down easy and go out with the girl that you like better. If you don't, you will always wonder "what if..."
If she dumps you in a week? Oh well. Life is full of risks. You obviously don't like your gf that much, or you wouldn't be thinking about going out with another girl.
That's just my opinion though. Good luck!
2007-03-08 13:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bookshelf cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am comeing from experience i know it sounds kind corny but make a list with two columns, on one side right your curent gf name, on the other side right the other girls name, the list what you like about each girl (ex: her smile, or same favorite move, or favorite sport, or even how they make you feal) fill up as much as you posibly can(with out lyeing lol) (use as much paper as you need) then count and see who had the most things you like. i know it sounds chezy but it really helps you think about the people and how you feal right about. if you need any more help you can IM me or mail me. im here to help and here to listen
2007-03-08 13:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by jessie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not totally into your girlfriend, the only fair thing is to let her go. If she knows your thinking of someone else, it will really upset her. Just tell her your not ready for a commited relationship. Good Luck!
2007-03-08 13:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u shouldn't.
i'm a girl, i'm just telling from my own perspective....
when i suddenly show interest in someone whom i didnt respond and who i wasn't interested in the past.... it means that i'm very bored now! or maybe i've just broke up with my bf, i need some companies, someone to talk to, someone to distract myself, someone to care about me. It doesnt mean that i like u.
good luck
2007-03-08 13:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what makes you happy, right? Just try to be sensative when you let your current girl go. Sounds like she didn't do anything wrong.
2007-03-08 13:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by heather l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do wat u think is rite.
if u luv her than go for it
but fi u dnt wanna go 4 her n still want to go wit ur current gf than do it.
but in the end just make sure that u dnt hurt wither one of them so much...
i dnt really no.
but in the end just choose the rite girl who u will b happy wit.
who i will be soon the one u care for...
idk...but make a gud choice
2007-03-08 13:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. just give yourself more choices. As long as you are not married, you can meet other girls. The choice is yours.
2007-03-08 19:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋