Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

1) he gave me his phone to take home with me to take pic of myself
2) he smiles a lot
3) he goes wherever i want(even if he really doesnt want to, like the mall)
4) touches me a lot (smacks my butt, gives me hugs, plays around a lot)
5)goes out to dinner, movies, other places
6) talks on the phone for hours at a time
7) smiles when other people ask us if we are going out
8) makes great eye contact
9) sits by me in all of my classes

2007-03-08 16:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends birthday is coming up in a months time. She turned me down for going out with her but wants to still be friends with me. What should i get her that doesnt show too much affection also it shouldnt send the message that i dont give a damn about her either. Please Help.....its her 22nd birthday.

2007-03-08 16:20:46 · 15 answers · asked by Wil 1 in Friends

I am not in college because I work full-time already, so I have can't meet girls the way other guys my age can. I feel like I am at a disadvantage. What can I do?

2007-03-08 16:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

We talk on msn like 3 hrs a day. Anyways, we hung out tonight for about 4 hrs at his dorm room, and are hanging out tomorrow.

He even told me he wants to take things slow. He has given me a strong hug, mostly grasping the upper part of my body, rather than feeling me up.

He doesn't care what we do. He'll do whatever I want to do, as long as he is hanging out with me pretty much.

2007-03-08 16:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

why he broke up with me I was devestated, because first I thought we had a solid relationship, second he told me the girl was a mistake thats why he didnt want to stay with her from the begininng, and I even told him to be a prst of his daughters life. Well, he did and he because he developed feelings for the mother of the child, he totally disregarded who I was to him, anything we had and so on. I feel he was manipulated into thinking thats where he should be. But, I knew this girl was not all there. Well, now they are not together, she lied to him about things, she not educated, all she cares about is guys wanting her and being famous. Now..she is a "model" and poses provactivly on myspace and isn't sure if she is bi-sexual or not.! I suppose what I'm asking is do you think he regrets what he has done to us and our relationship. He is a teacher and always frowned upon girls like that. But he jeopardized so much with us to be with that. What would you think? I cut off all ties w/him.

2007-03-08 16:19:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I would like to have some e-friends. My family always stress me out. After school I spend some time on the internet, so sharing information wtih friends would be great fun. Conact me. Bye.

2007-03-08 16:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Whenever I say I'd like to have a beatiful girlfriend people asume that if she's beautiful she'll be shallow, boring and not intelligent. Arent some average looking or ugly girls shallow and not intelligent as well?

2007-03-08 16:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

'm in my thirties? Some of them are rich, some are handsome but they all have one thing in common. - They're goody goody men with no personality who would do anything for me but I find them very boring. I'm attracted to men who are chatty, very outgoing, funny and exciting but those guys are nothing like that. What should I do cuz I can only seem to attract one type of guy?? How would I know who God wants me to marry as they're all the same kind?

2007-03-08 16:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look If you don't want to talk to me....then I really screwed up. I don't expect a second chance.

2007-03-08 16:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Bonzai07 2 in Friends

Try to take him down a notch?
There is this girl which even strangers says stares at me all the time. She has told me she thinks I'm an egomaniac yet she loves to flirt with me. What's up?

2007-03-08 16:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by BondJamesBond 1 in Singles & Dating

well i want to get chicks

2007-03-08 16:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend does not care if he ends up losing me. I have been with him for 5 years now and there is an issue with his mother. That being she has to live with us after marriage and she hates me. She doesnt even talk to me. Having said that, if I confront my bf about this, he gets angry and says that it is upto me to make things better (after marriage though). He says that his mother is very reasonable woman and she will eventually come around if I treat her well. But beyond this situation, if I ask him to choose between us, he gets angry. If I threaten him with breaking up, he does not care and says that if I choose to leave him, it is my loss.
I love him dearly but I am not so sure now, if the 5 years I spent with him was really worth it. What should I do?

2007-03-08 16:15:12 · 12 answers · asked by Lucky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 16:13:35 · 22 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i liked him eversince i was 11, i always had that special feeling for him , i used to fight with him about simple matters in school just to get his attention, he once told me he loved me, but as a kid, i dont think that was ever true.
eventhough in high school we were no longer school mates, i still think of him, dream about him everyday, wishing that somehow he could still be close to me, he is constantly in my thoughts and i wrote about 10 poems or more for him,
in college ive resolved to write about my feelings for him, though i know its too late, i just wanted him to know, he never replied anyway,i dont know what made me think that we both feel the same, when all this years i was a forgotten past, i dont know why i was so hooked with him, i know he is not worth my love, not worthy of my attention,i was rejected, but it doesnt seem to matter, i still wish the best for him, i still cry whenever i meet him at the school in college, i dont want to talk to him,am i still in love

2007-03-08 16:13:22 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think men are more likely to stay with a woman who gives them the freedom to pursue outside, "superficial" (purely sexual) relationships, or do you all secretly want to be told "no, you can't do that"?

I sincerely want to know...please give me your honest opinion!

2007-03-08 16:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by Solstice 6 in Marriage & Divorce

the wife knows me and doesnt have the slightest idea of what her husband and i did before. but i have stopped doing it but still feels guilty about it at times.

2007-03-08 16:12:47 · 12 answers · asked by meh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im a totally clueless guy who wants to go out looking for an engagement ring for my sweetheart but im confused on one thing, what's the deal with the carats, what does more or less mean as far as what the ring looks like? im sorry im just lost

2007-03-08 16:12:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

had me help her clean her house and told me after I was finished she she would pay me 200 dollars then said she wanted to show me her new bed and told me it sure could rock and she started undressing and I ran home and I was blind for 3 days, can I sue her?

2007-03-08 16:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to a Catholic university and it seems like good guys are plentiful, I just get stuck with all the ones that a.) want to just be friends with benefits, or b.) are extremely attractive and smart and funny, but athiest. I'm thinking about becoming a nun now because I feel so hopeless. I'm not ugly, and very friendly. Is there any tricks I should know about?!

2007-03-08 16:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by SaRaH S. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend, who has been devorced. He wanted to be open with me and told me things that he has never told anyone. He said that while he was in his marriage, which he never should have been in that lasted only 2 yrs, that the latter part of the marriage he started cheating on his wife with several women. My question is that do you think that he could cheat again given the circumstances. He met me while he was already seperated from his ex wife, we have been together now for about a year and a half, and he is ready to commit with an engagement ring.....what is going on in his head???

2007-03-08 16:10:00 · 16 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Singles & Dating

Why am i suddenly acting this way about men... am i getting paranoid?
Why am i suddenly avoiding men?
i dont know i just dont like the attention , i just dont like men to be so clingy and be so overly desperate about saying that they miss me or they like me, not even in text, in person or chat, i just started feeling that i dont want their attention, im not a lesbian, its just that this crush whom i felt so strongly for, now i dont even feel a thing for him, he is starting to text me and all that last month i sort of even want to be really close to him now i dont want him near, i dont want any man to start confessing anything to me about love,to the point that i sometimes dont talk to men (friends) afraid that they might misinterpret my message of friendship, i only want the friend zone for all, amazingly even for men who i totally adore physically

2007-03-08 16:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

ok, not really. seems like it. anyway, there's a girl at school, and you know the story. Anyway, how do I go out with her considering the fact i'm 16 and have no liscense. parents, no....she's 18 though, and has a liscence. is that.......normal? for a girl to drive, i mean? and how do i tell my parents?

2007-03-08 16:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Bruce Lee Reborn 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend never wants to have sex. We live together for over 2 years. From the very beginning of our relationship something was missing. I thought that maybe we needed more time..We have sex like once every six months. We never kiss like girlfriend and boyfriend do.. he kisses me sometimes but it feels more like a friend’s kiss.. There is no intimacy between us whatsoever. I was trying to talk to him about it but he just gets defensive. He does have a problem sometimes to stay hard and he usually blames me for that. I don’t think it’s me because I had many boyfriends before and everything was totally opposite !! I know he is not cheating on me. He never leaves house except to go to work. I love him but I need sex! He is always making sex jokes - but he is all talk and NO action.
So - what's the deal?? Do some people just have no sex drive?

2007-03-08 16:07:21 · 31 answers · asked by ola j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Although I currently have a myspace, I am getting sick and tired of it. I prefer to talk to people one on one over the phone or in person. Myspace just seems like a lazy way to communicate with people whom you never talk to in person. People need to get off of their *** and go outside to get some fresh air. Myspace is a joke!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-08 16:07:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a Christian woman whose husband died. I am recieving SSI survivor benefits, but would like to get re-married.....problem is that I do not want to lose my survivor benefits. Is there a way to keep them? One option I was thinking about was to get married with just him and I present, along with one witness before God....no, legal papers signed with city hall. Do you think God would consider us married??? Struggling with this one. Would love any input here. Thanks bunches,
Kimberley

2007-03-08 16:06:58 · 20 answers · asked by Kimberley M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this mean she still loves me? This is out of the ordinary for her. She is being extra nice to me too.

2007-03-08 16:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Engaged a year. He has been hanging out with his male friends almost every free waking minute since. I have invited him to go out with couples to dance, he won't go(says he only goes to those places to meet someone, he already has someone, but he doesn't mind if I go without him??) He won't go to movies, etc. This weekend they had a 'boys night out'. This hurt. he can go out with his friends but not me? I decided to go out also. Little did I know he was going to be where I decided to go. I went up and said hi and he completely ignored me. So, I went dancing with another guy. I came home when the club closed. He didn't come home until 6am and won't tell me where he was. We barley talked since. Then, I started telling him why I did it. (I was hurt he ignored me and I didn't expect to see him there he told me they were going somewhere else. I am also hurt he doesn't go anywhere with me.) He said 'I don't want to deal with you now.' and he said I should move out If. Did he ever care?

2007-03-08 16:05:06 · 15 answers · asked by Lexy2134 1 in Singles & Dating

OK...so maybe I shld read more Cosmopolitan magazine. But for now I need help being clever, sweet, sexy (but not slutty) in communicating with this man Im interested in. Hes working so I cant call, but I can send a text message. So, give me some nice but naughty messages that will keep him smiling while he does the grueling job thing

2007-03-08 16:04:48 · 3 answers · asked by kinduvabrat 2 in Singles & Dating

She was never like this until she met this boy and since then she has gotten into trouble at school - 4 detentions in 7 weeks. Until this she was never in any trouble at all. We have forbidden her to see him and while she claims to have broken up with him she has lied to us repeatedly about this. We have tried turning off her cell phone, grounding her and she still manages to contact him. She will use her friends to help her sneak around and lie to us. When she gets caught in her lies she gets very angry at the person who catches her and strongly insists that they have broken up. They have not we have so much proof and she lies her way through all of it. She lies to her friends her co-workers, us and teachers. This is getting out of control and only getting worse. How do we break her of this compulsive lying and how do we get this boy out of her life if she is not willing to do it herself?

2007-03-08 16:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lilacs 2 in Family

I go to this store and always saw this one girl that was a pusher to help people to their car. And everytime I went I would see her and she would kind of give me a smile and I would kind of smile back, but we never really talked. Then one day there was a couple that were short 10 dollars and I gave it to them. The next day she came to my restaurant and ate and we made eye contact and I told the cashier to not charge her for their drinks and walked away. Anyways, I didn't see the girl for maybe 2 weeks since that time and then the next time I saw her she stated to me that what I did for the couple was really nice, I said thanks. (I was thinking that was 2 weeks ago) She also said you work there (restaurant) I said I own it. Yesturday I went there and said I have a cool accent and wanted to know what I was. Also a cart boy that kept picking on her so I said to her you know what it means when a guy picks on you. And she replied I don't like him (immediately) I guess she doesn't have a bf.

2007-03-08 16:04:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships