'm in my thirties? Some of them are rich, some are handsome but they all have one thing in common. - They're goody goody men with no personality who would do anything for me but I find them very boring. I'm attracted to men who are chatty, very outgoing, funny and exciting but those guys are nothing like that. What should I do cuz I can only seem to attract one type of guy?? How would I know who God wants me to marry as they're all the same kind?
2007-03-08 16:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to work on you. Be realistic and figure out why you are bored. Could it be that you are bored because they like you to much and that you are more attracted to men that aren't to nice to you? If that is the case, you will not be happy married to someone who is not nice to you! people tend to marry what is familiar and not what is comfortable or necessarily happy. Is there something in your background that makes you more attracted to those who are less interested. These things are often subconscious and you have to really think it through to understand what is going on.
2007-03-08 16:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say follow your heart. I have dated men with bucks,big ego's,boring,and all they think about is money. I won't settle for a man just because he's handsome and rich. Like you, I am attracted to a certain type and I won't settle for one who thinks he's mister right. I believe that the right guy for you will come along when you least expect it. I'm 60 and still looking.
Just be patient and Good Luck to you.
2007-03-08 16:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ღ♥Jeanene♥ღ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this question. You definitely shouldn't settle for less than what you want because you DESERVE to be with the type of man that you like. If you "settle" for a man to marry, your marriage will be miserable and would probably end up in you wanting a divorce. Start flirting more and eventually a confident, out-going, funny, and exciting guy such as myself (except maybe a few years older) will sweep you off your feet. Good luck.
2007-03-08 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Alan K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes we do not find what we are looking for in anyone and have to make a choice that is not what we really do want. At least these guys treat you good. I wish I could find a goody goody like you describe. You are lucky.
2007-03-08 16:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't settle. Keep them around for fun so you can go out with them when you want to but don't marry a boring person.
2007-03-08 16:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe god can take a break from stopping war famine and disease to create your guy. Or maybe he just made the same mistakes creating your "admirers" that he did while solving the other problems....get over yourself
2007-03-08 16:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle for the admirers (spelling?) that you find boring. see if your friends can set you up either on a blind date or a group date with a guy that is your type
2007-03-08 16:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people tend to gravitate towards the same type...these men find you attractive on many levels.......but you should never settle........talk to men that are completely different then any you have had relationships before..... you may find what you are looking for ......
2007-03-08 16:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by connie b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont settle, God works in mysterious ways. For one you shouldnt settle for anything less than your standards, even if you never find him then thats Gods plan. wait untill you find the right man, pray every night for you knight in shining armor and if God wills it he hill show him to you, if not, thats just the way it is.
2007-03-08 16:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't settle!!! Just because you are in your 30s doesn't mean you have to pick someone who doesn't satisfy you. You would regret that for the rest of your life.
You are in the prime of your life. Go live it and don't worry about being married. And please don't settle!
2007-03-08 16:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋